Anyone else feeling like this?

FallOutBoyfan99
FallOutBoyfan99 Community Member Posts: 15 Connected
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I'm feeling depressed all the time, even though my future looks bright from the outside.

I've recently moved out of my mum's house to live with my partner, (it's been a week since I moved in) who goes back to work tomorrow and I'm involuntary jealous because I'm unemployed and currently looking for work, but I don't know what I want to do next.

Does anyone else have these feelings and have you got any advice for how to overcome them, please?

Thanks

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  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,713 Championing

    Hey @FallOutBoyfan99, it's not easy I understand. I was in your position some years ago where my partner worked but I wasn't really contributing at all. I did a lot of the housework but I still felt like I wasn't doing my "fair share" so to speak. Looking for a job can be very tiring and frustrating. Do you have any hobbies or interests that you can turn to for inspiration on what to do next?

    Have you spoken to your GP at all about these feelings? Though the waiting lists for therapy can be long, therapy certainly can help you process these feelings and understand them. It certainly helped me understand where certain feelings were coming from and why I was having them. And that understanding helped me overcome them.

    You can also check out Mind, they have a bunch of pages with tips for helping with various mental health related issues: Tips for everyday living.

  • FallOutBoyfan99
    FallOutBoyfan99 Community Member Posts: 15 Connected
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/877558#Comment_877558

    Hey Jim, thanks for your message.

    I'm really interested in doing something mental health related because I have lived experience, but I don't have any counselling experience or a degree (not smart enough). 🤣

    I've spoken to my GP in the past, had counselling but personally it didn't help me. I'm going to speak to them again and see if I can be referred for phyciatric help as I think that would be more beneficial.

    I'll check out the pages you suggested on Mind's website, thanks for the link. 🙂

  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,713 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/877613#Comment_877613

    I don't believe for a moment that you aren't smart enough. While you might not be able to jump straight into working in the industry have you considered what steps you could take to start that journey?

    While it won't resolve not bringing money in, a small amount of volunteering can help you get some experience as well as get you out the house if it's not remote volunteering. Even then, there are remote volunteering opportunities these days.

    I hope your GP starts the process for getting you proper treatment, fingers crossed 🤞

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