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  • egister
    egister Posts: 546 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/899371#Comment_899371

    Most organisms on planet Earth “think” this way. Attempts by cultural change to undo millions of years of evolution are useless.

  • Saad9900
    Saad9900 Community member Posts: 7 Listener

    When and where do I find love and life progresses?🤷🤷🤷

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 8,262 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I think love tends to find you @Saad9900 so don't feel you have to go out looking for it. 😊

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community member, Scope Member Posts: 2,508 Championing

    I think it begins with us.

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Community member Posts: 2,220 Championing
    edited October 26

    @jamiebear

    I was a member of OUTSIDERS a few decades ago !

    https://outsiders.org.uk/

    Could be worth contacting them for advice ?

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community member, Scope Member Posts: 2,508 Championing
    edited October 26

    When and where do I find love and life progresses?

    When? Nobody can tell you.

    Where? This isn't a dating site but you can make friends here. Please tell us something about yourself 🙂

  • Saad9900
    Saad9900 Community member Posts: 7 Listener

  • Saad9900
    Saad9900 Community member Posts: 7 Listener

    I know it's not a dating site

    I just said what was on my mind, if that upset you, I apologize. I will delete that. Greetings to everyone.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community member, Scope Member Posts: 2,508 Championing
    edited October 26

    Nothing upset me. Greetings to you from me. I apologise for saying the wrong thing.

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Community member, Scope Member Posts: 2,515 Championing
    edited October 27

    I've been single since 2010, I made mistakes in 2006,2007 and 2009, back then I was a terrible judge of character and paid for it.

    However I learnt some lessons and it made me a much sharper judge of character. I have had 3 offers of relationships since 2010 but I declined them all for different reasons.

    I also figured as others have said it will come to me if it's meant to be, I never ever look for someone and In my case it would definitely come from friendship first. I'd need to feel that special connection and bond.

  • Saad9900
    Saad9900 Community member Posts: 7 Listener

    This is life, it has good days and difficult days. But the question is how do you get through the difficult days? The difficulties are always greater than the good days, but sweet memories remain that cannot be forgotten. Even though I suffer from fibromyalgia, I still defy the difficulties and continue with life.

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 8,262 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I'd not try and defy the difficulties @Saad9900 I'd try and work with them. It'll be different for everyone though. But personal experience has led me to finally work alongside my disabilities and pain, working against them tends to lead to even more frustration.

  • egister
    egister Posts: 546 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/931574#Comment_931574

    Absolutely not true at all. Quite the contrary. This is my experience and you can’t convince me otherwise.

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