What does it mean that I wasn't interested in or attracted to one guy who mentioned that his exgf

Katiedimelow20
Katiedimelow20 Posts: 100 Connected
edited August 15 in Relationships

I did struggle with online dating and as well with real life dating / meeting guys in person. One man that I did meet at a social event did talk openly about his ex-gf being his best friend too and that turned me off from one guy. I think that one guy was attracted to me but I wasn't attracted to one guy that did mention about his girlfriend being his bestfriend. I had looked online and I had noticed it can be a red flag as well about being best friends with my ex partner. I did block all my ex boyfriend. I got 9 ex bfs. I did meet a new guy that was at the same social event in city centre and did go out to the pub on Monday and had chip/fries. I'm could be attracted to one of the new guys but i do not like to rush into and the new guy did send a text asking to be girfreind and i reply back let's just wait and see how is goes. The new guy does have autism. The new guy did call me before we did meetup on Monday afternoon.

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  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 6,910 Online Community Coordinator

    I think you did the right thing by saying you'll see how things go @Katiedimelow20 there's never any rush! We're all keeping our fingers crossed for you with the new guy. 😁


    Though I'd not worry too much about guys being friends with their ex's, I'm still good friends with most of mine. They're still nice people, it just didn't work out between us on a romantic level. 😊

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Posts: 100 Connected
    edited August 16

    @Albus_Scope the first guy that i mention also hangout with his exgf that also his best friend to . i can be turn off from this first guy . was both there last time and felt bit let down . i met new guy at same time in the city centre area social events .