A close family member has been applying for ESA on my behalf as I'm autistic and have severe social anxiety and so I struggle speaking to people (this is also the reason for my claim). So far my family member has been able to speak to the DWP and job center for all aspects (aside for me hopping on to give my consent for them to speak for me) but I've just had a letter through for me to attend an medical interview/the last stage in the application.
My family member rang the DWP to ask if they could do this interview alone as there is no way I could do it as it would cause me so much distress and make me so ill (they explained all this to the dwp and the form you have to submit prior to this stage contained all of this along with evidence from medical professionals).
The dwp said that I have to do the interview either by myself or with my family member there but I have to be there and speak unless I'm not capable of managing my own finances(which I am and if I said I wasn't they would do a home visit to confirm this which would only prove I am capable and take us back to this stage). I have absolutely no idea what to do now as there is no way I can do this interview (the format eg. phone interview or in person doesn't matter) as they are asking me to do something which would be incredibly distressing and is the whole reason I am applying in the first place- to get the help I need they want me to do the thing i can't do
I'm just so stressed and worried and I've no idea what to do or where to go and the interview has been booked in for 2 weeks time. Any help is much appreciated