Life is hectic and is going to get more hectic.

SunflowerValley
SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

I'm just about to start my second year at college and I'm scared that it is going to stress me out. I will be in college 4 days a week and then 5 once I start work placement. I am also going to have 3 exams in December and January. I will then have lots of coursework from February until June.

This means I will have to change the day I have my PA. It was Monday but I have now had to change it to Friday. Once I have started my work placement it will have to be Sunday. I really look forward to these sessions every week.

My family don't really come and see me and they don't really talk to me and a lot of them have promised to take me out but they haven't and probably never will. I also only have 2 friends who I don't see much, but hopefully I'm going to see them more.

I'm hoping to move in a year so that I'm set up better with my disability for when my parents can't look after me.

I also have to deal with many health problems and appointments which stress me out. I also find it frustrating sometimes when I can't do things myself and feel bad when asking others to help me, even though I know they don't mind.

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  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,129 Championing

    hi @Sunflowervalley I hope you get on OK at college, is there someone at college you can you talk to about how you

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    Hi @Sandy_123 thank you, I can apply for extensions when I do my assignments so that should help since I should get 25% extra time like I do in my exams.

    Hi @Bluebell21 i'm studying Health and Social Care. I will try. I'm going to work in the SEND corridor for students who need help with things like writing, counting money and filling out worksheets and things like that. Yes, I am. Yeah, I'm trying to accept that I need help and it is okay to ask for it (even if it is in the middle of the night, it is what I struggle with most when asking for help). Thank you.

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,129 Championing

    That sounds like a good plan and might help

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    @Sandy_123 I hope so.

    @Bluebell21 Yeah, I will.

    Thanks guys, take care.

  • egister
    egister Posts: 1,110 Pioneering

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