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Bluesky123
Bluesky123 Online Community Member Posts: 16 Listener

Hi I'm staying in cape town south Africa and i was diagnosed with fibromyalgia anxiety megrains post traumatic stress disorder and depressive episode I'm struggling a lot and I'm unemployed and got three children we staying in gangsters paradise and many time bullets enter our sack I'm depressive cause I am unable to work and my children are still at school on the other hand my neighbors say that I'm staying on their property and must brake down we don't got any money and my husband passed several years ago do you have any advice or help for me thanks God bless

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  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Online Community Member Posts: 62,481 Championing

    I'm sorry to hear this. Scope is a UK forum so I'm afraid we won't be able to give any advice for South Africa because things could be very different over there.

    Is there anyone you can reach out to over there? Family, friends maybe?

  • Bluesky123
    Bluesky123 Online Community Member Posts: 16 Listener

    Hi poppie thank you for your honesty if only had friends and family that still care years ago when my mother pass on I leave my job to look after my brothers cause I was not staying with them my father was very abusive all the years and he promised me and my brothers that he just wait for my mother to pass on then we gonna see what he will do to us ok we forget about it because he cried on my shoulder s that we must stand together as a family I'm the oldest and I've tried my best every time when I come in by the door they quite not to know my father was turning my brothers against me everything I did was wrong like my cooking they actually take me as their servant washing their clothes look after their children clean the house I've notices that things change cause no gave money for food anymore he started with me I can't use their water or there electricity or anything in the house I ask neighbors for help and my father would go to them to say they must not help me I we only ate bread and polony but still he would steal the polony and leave dry bread fory children and I to eat my baby was still very small and I was very unhappy till one day one off my friends said drink a beer with me to relax your mind less did I know it will be the worse day off my life the evening I was my child he felt asleep and I went to look fory children father for druppers money I didn't take long my own father go to police station and said I'm on drugs and left my child alone the time they police came my girls were bath my baby also and I was breastfeeding my baby boy they took my child claiming I'm on drugs the next day I went to my family to tell them what my father did my grandma say she can't say anything it's family business my aunty said no you never where on drugs I've never seen my child again till he got sick and in hospital I went to hospital cause sosial workers came to me I was staying at the back at a friend's house sosial services find out the truth because the community went there to talk about me and how our life has been all the years unfortunately I couldn't take my child because I was unemployed and things were bad were I stay sometime they don't give me food and they also treat my like there maid I decided to go stay on the street with my girls I've my child again after 10 years but feel so sad cause I'm incomplete he can't even come visit us cause off the shooting in our area if there is anyone out there who can help us financially to get off this place so we all can be together please have a nice day God bless every day I would talk my heart out on community cause I got no one that cares even our government does not see fibromyalgia as recognize sickness I apply so many times for dissibility grand buy was turned down aah I feel so much better have a nice day

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 12,620 Championing

    I'm going to South Africa in the summer

  • Bluesky123
    Bluesky123 Online Community Member Posts: 16 Listener

    Hi you would enjoy the beaches mountains tourist attractions I don't want to lie if I'm right I and my family went to a beach 12 years ago just thinking how much we miss in this situation we in enjoy and thank u for your comment God bless have a nice day

  • Bluesky123
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  • Bluesky123
    Bluesky123 Online Community Member Posts: 16 Listener

    Hi that's will be nice tourist attractions beautiful beaches I don't want to lie but my family and I went to the beach like 12 years ago because off our situation hope you have a wonderful time thank you for your comment God bless have a blessed day

  • Bluesky123
    Bluesky123 Online Community Member Posts: 16 Listener

  • Bluesky123
    Bluesky123 Online Community Member Posts: 16 Listener