Mother’s Day

Agnia

Hi to everyone,

In 2025 Mother’s Day in the UK falls on Sunday , March 30 .
i have been thinking about it, and even now when im writing it im crying and im having a problem because my tears are blocking my vision of what im writing here , A mother is a very special figure in a child’s life ( the quality of parental relationships has a significant impact on a child’s self esteem) and even an adult child , sometimes the mother child relationship can be very difficult. i do love my mother, but i also feel and know and i think that i was abandoned when i really needed her help ( especially that i never directly asked her with the words - please, could you help me , and i worked from the very beginning when i came to the UK ), and i still can’t get over the shock of what she said to me when i asked her for help, and how badly it affected my health and when she blocked me . My mother worked at the university for many years . i remember she called me mimosa because of my sensitivity and i felt the negative meaning of this word, she also used other terms to describe me , in relation to my work here in the UK she called me a hero , a titan ,( and also knowing how much i sacrificed for my professional work ) and for telling me she would never come to work in the UK, i also heard that she thinks she is smarter than me and wiser , probably she is ., i think that in some ways im more shy than she is .

im Polish , and “ Polish mother “ is often used to the archetype as a Polish symbol of women , a devoted and caring Polish mother who acting within the framework of her family life , and also serves society and people.

Kind regards.