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My Autistic son wants to live independently

Hi my name is Helen. I'm very new to asking for advice so please forgive the dozens of questions I'm going to be asking throughout this site
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We made loads of lists, and signs for round the flat - things like a step by step guide on the door to remind him what he needs to check before leaving. We also bought a label machine for things like electrical plugs, which setting to put washing machine/oven on.
There is a panic alarm he can press in an emergency.
He has an iPad which is fantastic for FaceTime. If he has a problem he sends a photo or FaceTimes us to show us what is wrong, and we can talk him through it. This was worth its weight in gold the day he rang to say the flat was on fire, and please could we ring British Gas?!! FaceTime showed us he was making cheese on toast and a tiny bit of cheese was smoking - though to this day I have no idea what Bristish Gas were meant to do, he lives in towerblock with no gas supply
Have you tried contacting your local council to see if they have an independent living team to help your son pursue this?
How old is your son and what area do you currently live in? I can look up some information to help you move forward.
Loved @Blue Frog's advice, that was a really good outcome for your brother and lots of really good tips there. I loved the facetime tip too!
Best wishes
Debbie
I wonder if @Mickey might have some local advice he can offer?
I will have a look to see what's available in your area but hopefully Mickey will have some ideas too.
Look forward to catch up with you soon.