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Friend with a learning disability

Hi, I have a friend with a learning disability - we used to work together for a few years when he had a supported placement at my former job. He lives in a care home but is reasonably independent. I am not sure what exact learning disability he has but it includes slurred speech and difficulty retaining information. He is a lovely guy and I try to stay in touch with him although I have since moved away.
A couple of months ago I met up with him for lunch after not having seen him for a while. Subsequently he has been calling me frequently for a chat. While I'm happy to hear from him, sometimes this can be two or three times a week which is a little much and sometimes he is calling when I'm at work and even though I have said weekend is best I don't think it sinks in. I am meeting him for lunch again this week and not sure how to broach the subject with him - I don't want to put him off staying in touch but think it might be best to set out boundaries although I don't know if he will retain this. Any advice welcome. Thanks.
A couple of months ago I met up with him for lunch after not having seen him for a while. Subsequently he has been calling me frequently for a chat. While I'm happy to hear from him, sometimes this can be two or three times a week which is a little much and sometimes he is calling when I'm at work and even though I have said weekend is best I don't think it sinks in. I am meeting him for lunch again this week and not sure how to broach the subject with him - I don't want to put him off staying in touch but think it might be best to set out boundaries although I don't know if he will retain this. Any advice welcome. Thanks.
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Does anybody has any advice they can offer?
If not, it might be a good idea to see if Mencap can offer more specialist advice. You might also like to have a look through previous discussions in our learning difficulties category, to see if there are any hints or tips you can pick up there. I hope this helps and let us know how you get on!
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This is not healthy. He has too much time on his hands. There are schemes that basically help disabled people into paid or voluntary work. Look around the website- there might also be some useful resources regarding employment opportunities and careers. Also investigate online.