How do I
answer this question?
My mobility
is now so bad that I cannot get around at all. –but– Before it got so bad I hardly went out at all anyway as I do
not feel safe outside by myself. Everything is/was purchased online because I
panic if I go into a shop. Husband has to do all grocery shopping as just the
thought of a trip round Tesco brings me out in a cold sweat.
Medication
(Morphine) makes me feel drowsy and disorientated and (Nitrazepam) makes me
feel hung over till midday. I cannot work out directions to anywhere most of
the time – I even have to take a screenshot now when I book a doctor’s
appointment online so my husband can check I have the correct time in my head
(after getting it wrong many times and turning up late/wrong day). The only
time I can think clearly is between 4pm & 5pm when the morphine is wearing
off, just before the next dose is due.
I
(obviously) do not drive on this medication but I cannot follow maps. My
husband has bought a satnav as he got fed up with me navigating with a road map
and getting him lost!
I am
terrified of small dogs. A couple of years ago I had an altercation with a man
on our seafront. His little bulging-eyed dog ran up to me & snarled – I
thought it might bite me, so I kicked it! He said he was going to get me
arrested (till I pointed out a byelaw that says ‘dogs must be on leads on the
prom’) & the dog was obviously ‘not under control’ if it did that anyway.
Before I lost my mobility I used to run in the opposite direction if I saw a small
dog off a lead coming towards me.
I had a
stroke a few years ago & now have memory/concentration problems. I cannot
use public transport now –but– when I
could (until just over a year ago) I was ok until a stranger talked to me at
the bus stop, or sat next to me on the bus. I used to get off the bus at the
next stop and catch the next bus (home if the next one was full). In the end my
husband had to take me to the hospital etc in the car because of my paranoia.
I will not
answer the phone if I do not recognise the number; or talk to anyone I do not
know over the phone. I was scammed a few years ago, and have been paranoid
about talking to strangers on the phone ever since, so if I was out by myself and
got ‘lost’, I would have to phone a family member for them to ring a taxi for
me or to arrange for someone to pick me up. I was so panicky about claiming PIP
(because of the telephone call) I had to take several deep breaths while my
husband phoned the number and passed the phone over to me. He stayed by my side
ready to take over if I started to really panic and try to put the phone down.
It’s a difficult
question to answer because, if I was able to walk around with no problems, I
would have the problems above. Is the DWP talking about an ‘actual’ journey or
a ‘hypothetical’ one?
I am on DLA
High Mob/Care atm. Am praying I do not lose my mobility, as cannot face a
Tribunal. Can you still get Attendance Allowance, or is that transferring to
PIP as well? Just asking, as will be 65 next month – money is not so much, but wondering
whether it would be less hassle to claim than having a fight with PIP?