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Can an Appointee attend the PIP tribunal alone?
April
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I am an appointee for my daughter who is mentally disabled. She has been refused PIP and we have decided to challenge this. She is very anxious about going to a Tribunal, and I would be happy to attend for her, on my own. Do they actually need to have her there, or can I represent her? Is it preferable for her to attend with me though? Thanks for any advice
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I beleive a Tribunal can be held on your absence but if you daughter is present the Tribunal panel can see how bad and stressed your daughter is. I am sure others will have a comment or opinion to help in your decision. Good luck.
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The best chance of a decision in your daughters favour is for her to appear in person. This way the Tribunal can see for their self exactly how she is.
I would appreciate it if members wouldn't tag me please. I have all notifcations turned off and wouldn't want a member thinking i'm being rude by not replying.If i see a question that i know the answer to i will try my best to help. -
Isn't this a case of what is best for the daughter?
If she was my child and knowing how stressed she would become I would be of the opinion that her health and wellbeing takes precedent over anything else. What you are proposing is to parade her before a bunch of strangers hoping that she will become fretful, stressed and anxious so that they can view the position that the father has put her in. Down right cruel if you ask me to suggest that course of action.
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Hi @April
Done some research.
Yes you can address the tribunal on behalf of your daughter.
You will need to write to the tribunal, seeking permission.
You will need to send a copy of form BF57, which is the certificate issued to you by DWP confirming you Appointeeship.
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Welcome to the community!!
Good luck!! You need to write to the tribunal asking them politely for permission to do so. Get a copy of form BF57, fill it out and send it to them. BF57 is basically a certificate that is confirming your appointeeship. Feel free to ask any other questions here. -
Excellent advice above.
It causes me to shudder that some posters think it right to upset the child so much.
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Excuse me..... @Yadnad i never advised anyone to upset the child!!! My advice that to appear in person is better, is correct thank you!You don't have to tell me anything about mental health, since i have a 17 year old daughter that suffers with it too and has done for most of her life. Speaking from experience it isn't always great to keep that child in their own little bubble so to speak either.I would appreciate it if members wouldn't tag me please. I have all notifcations turned off and wouldn't want a member thinking i'm being rude by not replying.If i see a question that i know the answer to i will try my best to help.
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poppy123456 said:Excuse me..... @Yadnad i never advised anyone to upset the child!!! My advice that to appear in person is better, is correct thank you!You don't have to tell me anything about mental health, since i have a 17 year old daughter that suffers with it too and has done for most of her life. Speaking from experience it isn't always great to keep that child in their own little bubble so to speak either.
With twin married daughters' aged 38, I still protect them when appropriate from things that may hurt or upset them. They are both still my girls and would do anything to take pain from them.
Maybe we both have different views on how we look after our offspring?
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On this occasion we will have to agree to disagree. I'll do anything to help my children including spending that last 14 years fighting for answers from the medical professionals for my daughter. What i wouldn't do is wrap her in cotton wool because in my eyes, that's just making her MH even worse. I fought for help my daughter and i won, i'm proud of how far i've got and why...because i never ever gave up.
I would appreciate it if members wouldn't tag me please. I have all notifcations turned off and wouldn't want a member thinking i'm being rude by not replying.If i see a question that i know the answer to i will try my best to help. -
poppy123456 said:On this occasion we will have to agree to disagree. I'll do anything to help my children including spending that last 14 years fighting for answers from the medical professionals for my daughter. What i wouldn't do is wrap her in cotton wool because in my eyes, that's just making her MH even worse. I fought for help my daughter and i won, i'm proud of how far i've got and why...because i never ever gave up.
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