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Pin said: Did you have the assessment at home or in a centre?Its a fair point to say if you can drive safely then you’re likely to be able to cook unless there are other physical factors you’ve stated.
Pin said: My assessment notes I can walk 21 metres because that’s the distance from the waiting room to the office. Could it be similar for you?
Pin said: You’re not really taking on board what we’re saying.you say you arrived on a mobility scooter - so you can’t stand for long periods of time. Ie to cook - so that’s going to be a more acceptable reason for needing an aid.your analogies are way off, it’s not about skills - it’s about concentrations. If you don’t have the concentration to not leave gas on/cause fires/cook then it’s a natural assumption that you won’t have the concentration to drive.
Grumpy1954 said: Ok, that's a more reasonable reply. But as I keep saying, the concentration needed to drive after 60 yrs is minimal, unless something unexpected happens I can almost drive in my sleep. A direct comparison with something I've never done in my life, which would take a lot of concentration, is ridiculous - not sure if I get bored, lose concentration, whatever, but if I start reading a book, see something interesting on the news, go to bathroom and get distracted on the way back. The actual reason given for me lying that I can't cook was that I look well fed, which assumes the only way I can get food is buy and cook it myself .You may not like my analogies, but just keep telling me if I can drive I must be able to do a range of things I've never done in my life is fairly unhelpful , very presumptive and a little dumb. Goodnight, maybe goodbye, I'll decide tomorrow evenng.
Grumpy1954 said: You are all talking through your backsides, these things are ALL skills to be learnt, and I was very well and extensively trained to drive a wide range of vehicles including 5 tonne lorries The point I have tried to make is the amount of concentration I need to drive safely is vastly different to that of a learner driver who has to think about every action. I never said I can't or don't concentrate.How hard do you all have to concentrate to use a toilet? or walk, which is a complicated action?I have had 3 accidents in 50 years, neither of them my fault and I have not caused anyone else to avoid me either. The only incident I've had with a 44 tonne lorry was halfway round a 90 degree bend when he was on the wrong side of the road and I drove off road for the safety of my passengers.Having said that, cooking is also a skill I never learnt. Yes, I can microwave something simple, but I cannot cook a full meal BECAUSE i WAS NEVER TAUGHT TO which is likely why I lose interest quickly. Comparing microwaving a prepared meal , punching 3 buttons then waiting for it to ding is nothing like driving and the comparison is moronicConcentration is one thing, but it cannot help is you've never been taught to do the thing in the first place.Talking of idiotic examples, 44 tonne lorry cuts into my lane without warning, I cannot change lane because vehicles are (illegally) doing 100+ mph either side of me - any driver however competent would be dead, if you have nowhere to go and that happens, there's nothing can be done to avoid it. I was lucky with my incident artic on the wrong side of the road that I could get off the road out of it's path at that point.
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