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niknoo said: After waiting almost 14 weeks I got a letter today saying I have to have a f2f which I was really hoping I didn’t as I supplied lots of medical evidence and now I am a wreck with worry! I am so scared as I never had one for my ESA or my DLA ??
niknoo said: @Yadnad thank you for replying, That’s a really good way off looking at it - a chat as to what my conditions are and how they impact my life. God I will be in there forever then haha! With my DLA and ESA the medical evidence was enough to go by, but I know virtually everyone has to have a f2f with PIP. I’m just very daunted as I’ve had DLA my entire adult life and so scared as allyou hear his horror stories. That being said, the more positive ones are starting to filter through now. Xx
niknoo said: @Yadnad thank you for your advice. I know you had a terrible time of it regarding PIP, but what you’ve told me has eased my mind somewhat. I was physically shaking when I got the letter yesterday. I hate meeting new people and going to strange places even with the support of my partner. I rang yesterday to change the appointment as I wasn’t able to get to the original one without someone coming with me and even making that phone call I was crying, I was shaking, I nearly threw up. But the lady I spoke to was so lovely and said not worry the can change it to a date that’s convenient for me, which they did but I just know I’m going to be such a mess there. I’ll be so embarrassed if I have a panic attack there I will end up vomiting! Which I most likely will. I am in such a state about it. Xx
Yadnad said: niknoo said: @Yadnad thank you for your advice. I know you had a terrible time of it regarding PIP, but what you’ve told me has eased my mind somewhat. I was physically shaking when I got the letter yesterday. I hate meeting new people and going to strange places even with the support of my partner. I rang yesterday to change the appointment as I wasn’t able to get to the original one without someone coming with me and even making that phone call I was crying, I was shaking, I nearly threw up. But the lady I spoke to was so lovely and said not worry the can change it to a date that’s convenient for me, which they did but I just know I’m going to be such a mess there. I’ll be so embarrassed if I have a panic attack there I will end up vomiting! Which I most likely will. I am in such a state about it. Xx Unfortunately for me when I get stressed as in going to these assessments I react differently. My protective shield goes up which puts an invisible barrier between them and me. I can appear to be hostile, arrogant, and self determined (quite helpful as a local government politician though!). My previous life when working for the government before I became mentally ill doesn't help as there is very little that I don't know about how to carry out interviews under caution of the Perjury Act. My natural reaction to questions is either to field them off or attempt to divert the subject onto one that I am more happier talking about.Hence the reason why my assessor reports always come over as the assessor having to answer his/her own questions.Obviously you won't have that as a problem so be as relaxed as you can and hopefully with a good assessor you can talk openly about your problems.
Username_removed said: One of THE most annoying myths. There have been multiple investigations into the assertions made by government as to why DLA needed to be replaced by PIP. This was one for which there was no evidence found at all. DLA had regular reviews and random checks and 84% of decisions used additional evidence from GPs, consultants, hospitals and others who provide care, support and treatment, or from a medical assessment with, irony of ironies, ATOS. Despite the 84% figure DLA was all about self assessment and if a condition was clearly for life or degenerative then why would you have a review.
debbiedo49 said: Hope this helpshttps://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/publications/overcome-fear-anxiety
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