My husband works and earns just below £30k so we get no benefits other than my sons dla and some carers allowance. My son is 1 and is disabled and I have just given up my job as he needs more care. We live in Cornwall I have spent about £1000 in taking him to appointments in London and Bristol and the local hospital and on parking etc when he was an inpatient locally for a week in the last 3 months. None of the benefits take into account the costs and all of the charities require you to be on benefits for help. I'm at at point where I may need to say I can't afford to take him to appointments at the detriment of his health but I just don't know what to do