Hi!

I’m new here so I’m not sure what to expect.
Basically I’m 24 years old and I live with my mum. I have left sided Cerebral Palsy.
For a number of years now, my mum has been my appointee with PIP.(It used to also be ESA but she ended it a few years ago, I was starting a new job at the time.)
The appointee was done behind my back and she hid it from me for a number of years until I was going to put a claim in for PIP myself. The times when I wasn’t working, she used to go to the doctors behind my back to get sick notes to assist her with the claims. But I have stopped that now because I have changed doctors.
I’m due to start a new job soon and I’ve been trying to get support from Access to Work but they are refusing to speak to me because of the appointee. I made the initial application online with my support worker and when the advisor was allocated, me and my mum was sent an email which asked mum to give them a call. When it came to security questions, I had to give my mum the answer because she wasn’t originally aware of my new employer.
The advisor on the phone asked my mum if I was capable of managing my own affairs and she said yes. The advisor explained in that case I didn’t need an appointee and asked my mum to send an email to confirm this. My mum said she would but after since last night she has now gone back on her word.
My mum know full well I can manage my own finances, I have direct debits that come out of my account for my mobile and household bills such as TV,Broadband and Phone. I even pay for the Council Tax.
if I’m totally honest I don’t care if she gets my PIP money, l just want her remove as my appointee because I have no say otherwise and I can’t get the help I need with Access to Work. Every time I ask her for something to do with my PIP, it is done behind my back so I know there is some thing she is doing/done behind my back.
As I’m on Universal Credit, I’ve left a message for my work coach to ring me on Monday- Wednesday to see if they can help me get her removed. I’ve sent an email to my support worker from the Work and Health Programme to contact.
has anyone even been in my position at all and if so, do you have any advice on the route to take and the evidence to proof? I have bank statements to proof of the direct debits.
Any help anyone can give I would be grateful for.
Thank you.