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Hi, my name is blaney22!

blaney22 Member Posts: 1 Listener
My daughter has no diagnosis but after reading others stories on this site that sound so similar to ours I hope to get some helpful advice as I am blaming myself and struggling to understand and cope 


  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Member, Community Co-Production Group Posts: 12,478 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @blaney22 - Welcome to this very supportive community, & thank you for joining. I'm sure you're doing the very best for your daughter, & a diagnosis doesn't always change things, so please don't blame yourself for anything. If you might say a little more, there might be other parents here that could help. Perhaps you could ring your GP for some advice. How are you both doing? :)
  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Member Posts: 6,389 Disability Gamechanger
    Hello @blaney22   Pleased to meet you.

    Thank you for joining and sharing.

    Sorry to hear this. Please how can I help.?

    Your not alone please do not blame yourself.

    You are among members of our community who understand have compassion, empathy.

    Please if you need to ask any questions.

    Please ask any time.

    Please take care and safe.


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  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 8,578 Scope online community team
    edited March 2020
    Hi @blaney22. As a parent, there's always going to be the temptation for blame ourselves, but I have no doubt you've done all that you can.

    There is plenty of support here for you, so if you're able to give us some more details about your daughter, we might be able to make some recommendations. :smile:
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