Desperate for some help for my son

Stephchurch · July 2020

I have joined as I have noticed posts from people in a similar situation as me.
my son is 21 and has been diagnosed with ASD Aspergers he has Anxiety and become recluse for years now he doesn't go out.I am desperate for some help to help him as I worry about his future.

christian96 · July 2020

Hello @Stephchurch!

Here are some links and resources you might like to look at
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/introduction-to-care-and-support/
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/help-from-social-services-and-charities/
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/care-services-equipment-and-care-homes/

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/money-work-and-benefits/

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/care-after-a-hospital-stay/

Does he have a EHCP or not? Call up the local council on Monday morning to request a needs assessment. This is the first part of the process. Ask if a social worker can complete a assessment at your house. If he is interested in doing so, try finding some sort of paid work for him. Does he have any hobbies? Now is the time to look at some job opportunities and think about the future.
What about singing or arts and crafts for example? There are lots of opportunities that are out there, ask around or search online as well. Get him to help you out at home with the laundry or cooking too. Teach him how to use a washing machine, iron etc. Encourage him to leave the house for daily short walks. Support him to make good decisions.

Stephchurch · July 2020

Hi Christian Thank you for all the links.
He has had an assessment but doesn't have a EHCP I don’t think anymore as he isn’t in education.
He find social interaction very difficult and is interested in gaming & anime.
Thank you again for your reply
😊

Chloe_Scope · July 2020

Hi @Stephchurch and welcome to the community.

Here is some information which I have found:

Centres

Our centres can help you to do activities and socialise with other people. Read about our Centres.

Outreach

An outreach worker could help you to do the things you need or want to do, such as going to college, visiting the doctor, or doing your hobbies. Find out about our outreach services.

Supported employment

Supported employment services can help you to work or prepare for work. More about supported employment.

Support groups

Use our Autism Services Directory to find support groups and social clubs.

Therapists and specialists

You might get support from therapists and specialists such as counsellors and medical professionals.

You can read the full article from the National Autistic Society here.

The NHS also offer support which could help you and your son:

For adults

If you're an autistic adult or care for an autistic adult, ask your council for a needs assessment.

This is an assessment to find out:

what problems you're having with everyday life
what support or financial benefits you might be able to get

For parents and carers

If you look after someone who's autistic, ask your council for a carer's assessment.

This is an assessment to find out what support or financial benefits you might be able to get to help you care for an autistic person.

Please do let us know how you get on and if there is anything else at all that we can do to help.

Stephchurch · July 2020

Thank you I appreciate your help

leeCal · July 2020

Hi @Chloe_Scope is there an outreach organisation for people with CP, my son needs help at the moment with various problems with living?

Chloe_Scope · July 2020

Hi @leeCal, I've replied to your other thread. I hope this helps.