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How does one cope with staring people?
one of my disabled friends has a condition that makes him look a little different. Not horrible or frightening! Just because of his shape. He has a curved spine. He gets upset when people stare and when even grown men and women, yes adults, whisper and snigger. WHY DO THEY DO THIS? He is one of the nicest guys you'd ever meet. He's been married twice, has kids, and lives life to the full but peoples ignorance get him down and he's starting to react after so many years putting up with remarks and staring.....any advice I could give him guys? Saying ignore them doesn't seem enough.
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