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The latest version of me: searching for employment

Hello everyone.
I am not at all sure how to fit in but I'm going to try. I'm 56 and desperate to return to work in some form I have been restricted by limited ability to walk far, stand for periods of time reach up or kneel without pain. This new me came just a short time ago in February 2019. An accident led to a major operation which led to many failings and ultimately has led to the new limited me. I am trying my hardest to push forward and very gradually I am finding tiny improvements. I am desperately trying to find work as I'd always worked in retail shop floor customer service assistant ect. Its the first time I've had to think about the things I can and cannot manage regarding employment. I've applied for positions but where they ask if I have a disability I feel if I don't inform the employer it would annoy them when I arrive and see I'm not what they want. I'm scared of not getting the opportunity to show the skills I do have. I'd love some advice. I'm afraid I have suffered many years from anxiety and depression but through the work I did I always found I escaped that a bit. I love helping others and thrive around other people so finding this wonderful site is a god send.
I am not at all sure how to fit in but I'm going to try. I'm 56 and desperate to return to work in some form I have been restricted by limited ability to walk far, stand for periods of time reach up or kneel without pain. This new me came just a short time ago in February 2019. An accident led to a major operation which led to many failings and ultimately has led to the new limited me. I am trying my hardest to push forward and very gradually I am finding tiny improvements. I am desperately trying to find work as I'd always worked in retail shop floor customer service assistant ect. Its the first time I've had to think about the things I can and cannot manage regarding employment. I've applied for positions but where they ask if I have a disability I feel if I don't inform the employer it would annoy them when I arrive and see I'm not what they want. I'm scared of not getting the opportunity to show the skills I do have. I'd love some advice. I'm afraid I have suffered many years from anxiety and depression but through the work I did I always found I escaped that a bit. I love helping others and thrive around other people so finding this wonderful site is a god send.
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Sometimes it's useful to get a range of different ideas.
Although you've worked in retail before, something less physically taxing might now be more suitable for you. I'm thinking maybe working as an advice line, customer service or helpline operator. That way, you'd still be dealing with the public but not have to stand up all day. This is just one suggestion.
Are you thinking of working full time or part time?
Give yourself time to get used to new capabilities and conditions.
I would say that you should always be honest with prospective employers.
Wishing you all the best in your search for suitable employment.
Good Morning & Welcome it’s great to meet you today.
I am one of the Community Champion’s here at Scope.
Yes I went through the same situation a few years ago now.
You can get help through the “Access to Work Scheme”
Here’s some info below for you.
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Please please let let me know if you need any help with the above info.
@steve51
Here are some other articles you might find helpful:
- Reasonable Adjustment
- Access to Work grant scheme
- Flexible working
- Asking for adjustments when you become disabled
- If your employer rejects adjustments
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The good news is that there are more opportunities to do flexible working now than ever, so it might be worth exploring different job opportunities. Also, your age and being disabled are characteristics that make you unique and an asset to organisations - you have lived experiences that other candidates won't have so big it up. No doubt having your major operation made you resilient, flexible and determined; reflect on what you have learnt and make sure to put it on your CV and be proud of it in interviews.
Please let us know how you get on and the very best of luck.
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Every time I declare my disability on any application I get insta rejected, is it not supposed to be ILLEVGAL to do that? But under the DDA the onus is on ME to rpve discrimination by taking the company to the proverbial cleaners under the DDA or the Equality Act, which I can't afford and don't have a Lawyer.
This is what I found before:
I also had a look on Citizens Advice, and found this, similar, information:
"Employers can treat disabled people less favourably only if they have a sufficiently justifiable reason for doing so, and only if the problem cannot be overcome by making 'reasonable adjustments'. For example, an employer would be justified in rejecting someone with severe back pain for a job as a carpet fitter, as they cannot carry out the essential requirements of the job."
It looks like the Fulfilment Associate job involves 'offloading stock deliveries, processing work orders, locating merchandise, and packaging orders for shipment', so it might have been their view that they couldn't have put a reasonable adjustment in place for you as the job appears to involve a lot of packing and lifting. I'd encourage you to have a look into it yourself though.
Employers can treat disabled people less favourably only if they have a sufficiently justifiable reason for doing so, and only if the problem cannot be overcome by making 'reasonable adjustments'. For example, an employer would be justified in rejecting someone with severe back pain for a job as a carpet fitter, as they cannot carry out the essential requirements of the job.
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