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Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
Hi everyone I'm thinking about leaving this forum I cant spell properly and someone clearly pointed that out on a previous post I feel like im being bullied on here I dont need this right now 

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  • chiariedschiarieds Community Co-Production Group Posts: 9,181 Disability Gamechanger
    I have no difficulty in reading your posts, & many of us make a small mistake, or typing error.....it's nothing at all. Please ignore the comment left as it was unnecessary, tho I'm sure no harm was intended.
    It's good chatting to you, Willow, & hearing about your lovely family. :)
  • Ami2301Ami2301 Community Co-Production Group Posts: 7,751 Disability Gamechanger
    I'm really sorry to hear this @Ibelive2020 I will tag @Adrian_Scope who can reassure you and try to resolve this for you. We do not tolerate bullying here on the community. Sending big hugs ❤
    Disability Gamechanger - 2019
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @chiarieds it was not a typing error I clearly spelt the word wrong I'm not very good with grammar etc I did not have a good upbringing as a child but never mind I'm not a very social person i hardly leave my house etc just for school runs shopping and appointments as i suffer with social anxiety mental health issues and few other things so i thought i would join this group to make friends it's nice group made some good friends bit theres always that 1 person who has too bring me down and he has made me feel pretty **** about myself 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @Ami2301 thank you very much hope your well and that you and your family had a nice christmas 🥰
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    And congrats on new baby @Ami2301 hope labour was not that bad for you hun xxx
  • Ami2301Ami2301 Community Co-Production Group Posts: 7,751 Disability Gamechanger
    Thank you @Ibelive2020 :) it was a lovely day, full of smiles and laughter. How was your christmas?

    I had a planned c-section which went smoothly, however the recovery part knocked me for six. But I'm getting there slowly, thanks for asking :)

    Have you got much planned for the week ahead?
    Disability Gamechanger - 2019
  • chiariedschiarieds Community Co-Production Group Posts: 9,181 Disability Gamechanger
    It doesn't matter one bit if you spelt one word wrong, honestly. My daughter is dyslexic, & my son & I often struggle with her texts.....sometimes have to read them 3 times to understand! Your posts are very easy to understand, & it was wrong for the person to leave the comment he did, & it's not the first time he has left a member that message.
    I'm sorry about his inappropriate comment, & how it's made you feel. I've been upset by comments against myself, but there are so many friendly people on here that I try to ignore the odd bad thing, as it's such a good community. :)
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @Ami2301 we had lovely christmas thanks took me a while too recover from my emergency c section in 2017 as my baby got stuck during labour plus he had stopped growing so he was born 3 weeks early he was only 5lbs 4oz at birth hes still small now bless him and I dont make plans hun lol xxx
  • 66Mustang66Mustang Community Co-Production Group Posts: 5,091 Disability Gamechanger
    edited December 2020
    I have seen the post and don’t think he means anything by it.

    People have said things in the past which have upset me slightly, more than likely unintentionally, but I brush it to one side and try to ignore anything that causes me an issue. Part of being on an online community is having a bit of a skin.

    Apologies if this sounds harsh. However, I hope you stay, I have been on a lot of online forums and this community is much friendlier than most! We could do with a few more new faces around here! :)
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    Thanks @chiarieds and thanks @66Mustang if he did not mean anything by it he should not of commented!! 
  • Adrian_ScopeAdrian_Scope Testing team Posts: 8,001

    Scope community team

    I’m really sorry you’ve been upset by a comment from another member. I’m sure it wasn’t meant to cause offence (sometimes people can’t help but say something if they see an error) but equally I understand why it would upset you. 

    We aim to be an inclusive community and shouldn’t judge one another based on spelling or grammar. Like @chiarieds, I find your posts easy to read and don’t have any problem with your spelling or grammar. You are very welcome here and I’ve enjoyed reading about you and your family. I hope you continue posting.
    Community Manager
    Scope
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @Adrian_Scope thank you very much hope you enjoy the rest of your day 
  • janer1967janer1967 Member Posts: 11,201 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi I didnt see the comment but sorry you have been upset 

    I make mistakes all the time due to my poor vision and not checking b4 I post 

    You make very articulate posts so dont take it to heart their problem if they cant get past an incorrect spelling 

    You bring a lot to the community I always enjoy your posts and hearing what's been going on with you . I admire you as a person bringing all your children up and coping with theirs and your needs 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @janer1967 thank you means alot I look forward to your posts and everyone elses it's nice to know I'm not the only 1 going through lifes ups and downs the way I see things is there is always someone somewhere that is going too understand me 
  • janer1967janer1967 Member Posts: 11,201 Disability Gamechanger
    We understand you 

    I've seen the comment now just ignore it sure not meant to upset or be personal dont think they think b4 they post at times 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @janer1967 thanks are you upto much on this chilly afternoon?
  • janer1967janer1967 Member Posts: 11,201 Disability Gamechanger
    @Ibelive2020 not doing much now just chilling been doing chores and stuff 

    Want to try find a new course to study but dont know what I want to study next 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @janer1967 I'm just reading etc for lil bit b4 I start tea my children are upstairs in there rooms playing with there new xmas toys lol and I'm sat nx to my 5 year old twin boy hes playing peppa pig on his ds and my youngest child playing on living room floor watching tv 
  • janer1967janer1967 Member Posts: 11,201 Disability Gamechanger
    That's nice time together with your kids 

    My son is out with his friend 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @janer1967 it's too cold here too let my children out its brass lol 
  • janer1967janer1967 Member Posts: 11,201 Disability Gamechanger
    It's not too bad here and he never feels the cold 

    Where are you located 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @janer1967 I'm located in county durham in north east of england how about you?
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    Our weather here at the minute is 1c but feels like -2 🥶
  • janer1967janer1967 Member Posts: 11,201 Disability Gamechanger
    I'm in south yorkshire 

    I have been to Durham before had a friend there years ago 
  • RAwarriorRAwarrior Member Posts: 430 Pioneering
    Hi @Ibelive2020,

    I am really sorry to hear about your experience and I hope that you decide to stay on the forum. 

    There are lots of wonderful people on here who support each other. I have had a really bad time and I have had so much support from people in this wonderful online community.

    You can also flag any comments which you don’t think follow the community guidelines and the Scope moderators can look at the comments.

    I don’t know if you like wildlife but I started a Squirrels and Friends thread which might bring a smile to your face. I have posted some more photos today. I have Rheumatoid and Osteoarthritis. I also have PTSD as a result of being bullied and harassed at work for years. I find spending time outside with wildlife really helps me. I hope you like the photos if get a chance to visit the thread.

    I hope you stay on the forum as regardless of people’s disabilities, I have found that people on here try to help and support each other😁


  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @janer1967 it's nice place to live durham @RAwarrior I have decided to stay on the forum as I have made some great friends on here I'm always around if you would like a chat I love wildlife so does 1 my children for her birthday in feb she would like me to get her a tortise bless her 
  • RAwarriorRAwarrior Member Posts: 430 Pioneering
    Hi @Ibelive2020,

    I am really pleased that you you have decided to stay on the forum as there are so many people on here who want to help each other. 

    There are too many people to list but many of the people who have supported me have already replied to your posts on this thread.

    I love wildlife and spending time with my little squirrel families as I call them has really helped me. The squirrels know me because I have been feeding them for quite a while and I really look forward to seeing them.

    Thank you for your kind words and I will look out for you on the forum😁

    I can see you are relatively new to the forum and I found a great place to start is the Coffee Lounge where there is a wide range of discussions.

    I have posted extensively in Room 101 about things that annoy me and it’s quite an interesting thread😁


  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @RAwarrior thank you for your kind words means alot 
  • lisathomas50lisathomas50 Posts: 4,352 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi sorry that you have been upset  I don't think people mean anything by it realy I havent seen the post but I hope uou stay on here hope your feeling a bit better about things 
  • RAwarriorRAwarrior Member Posts: 430 Pioneering
    Hi @Ibelive2020,

    You're welcome and I am glad that you have decided to stay on the forum :)
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @lisathomas50 thanks for your kind words @RAwarrior thanks means alot 
  • RAwarriorRAwarrior Member Posts: 430 Pioneering
  • lisathomas50lisathomas50 Posts: 4,352 Disability Gamechanger
    Your welcome its a fun place to be on here lots of different discussions and fun things to do and its nice to talk to people  
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    Thank you @lisathomas50 thank you @RAwarrior I shall have a nosey now 
  • lisathomas50lisathomas50 Posts: 4,352 Disability Gamechanger
    Your welcome I live it on here 
  • lisathomas50lisathomas50 Posts: 4,352 Disability Gamechanger
    Love it not live lol 
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