Upset

Ibelive2020

Hi everyone I'm thinking about leaving this forum I cant spell properly and someone clearly pointed that out on a previous post I feel like im being bullied on here I dont need this right now 

chiarieds

I have no difficulty in reading your posts, & many of us make a small mistake, or typing error.....it's nothing at all. Please ignore the comment left as it was unnecessary, tho I'm sure no harm was intended.

It's good chatting to you, Willow, & hearing about your lovely family.

Ami2301

I'm really sorry to hear this @Ibelive2020 I will tag @Adrian_Scope who can reassure you and try to resolve this for you. We do not tolerate bullying here on the community. Sending big hugs ❤

Ibelive2020

@chiarieds it was not a typing error I clearly spelt the word wrong I'm not very good with grammar etc I did not have a good upbringing as a child but never mind I'm not a very social person i hardly leave my house etc just for school runs shopping and appointments as i suffer with social anxiety mental health issues and few other things so i thought i would join this group to make friends it's nice group made some good friends bit theres always that 1 person who has too bring me down and he has made me feel pretty **** about myself 

Ibelive2020

@Ami2301 thank you very much hope your well and that you and your family had a nice christmas ?

Ibelive2020

And congrats on new baby @Ami2301 hope labour was not that bad for you hun xxx

Ami2301

Thank you @Ibelive2020 it was a lovely day, full of smiles and laughter. How was your christmas?

I had a planned c-section which went smoothly, however the recovery part knocked me for six. But I'm getting there slowly, thanks for asking

Have you got much planned for the week ahead?

chiarieds

It doesn't matter one bit if you spelt one word wrong, honestly. My daughter is dyslexic, & my son & I often struggle with her texts.....sometimes have to read them 3 times to understand! Your posts are very easy to understand, & it was wrong for the person to leave the comment he did, & it's not the first time he has left a member that message.

I'm sorry about his inappropriate comment, & how it's made you feel. I've been upset by comments against myself, but there are so many friendly people on here that I try to ignore the odd bad thing, as it's such a good community.

Ibelive2020

@Ami2301 we had lovely christmas thanks took me a while too recover from my emergency c section in 2017 as my baby got stuck during labour plus he had stopped growing so he was born 3 weeks early he was only 5lbs 4oz at birth hes still small now bless him and I dont make plans hun lol xxx

66Mustang

I have seen the post and don’t think he means anything by it.

People have said things in the past which have upset me slightly, more than likely unintentionally, but I brush it to one side and try to ignore anything that causes me an issue. Part of being on an online community is having a bit of a skin.

Apologies if this sounds harsh. However, I hope you stay, I have been on a lot of online forums and this community is much friendlier than most! We could do with a few more new faces around here!

Ibelive2020

Thanks @chiarieds and thanks @66Mustang if he did not mean anything by it he should not of commented!! 

Adrian_Scope

Hi @ibelive2020, 

I’m really sorry you’ve been upset by a comment from another member. I’m sure it wasn’t meant to cause offence (sometimes people can’t help but say something if they see an error) but equally I understand why it would upset you. 

We aim to be an inclusive community and shouldn’t judge one another based on spelling or grammar. Like @chiarieds, I find your posts easy to read and don’t have any problem with your spelling or grammar. You are very welcome here and I’ve enjoyed reading about you and your family. I hope you continue posting.

Ibelive2020

@Adrian_Scope thank you very much hope you enjoy the rest of your day 

janer1967

Hi I didnt see the comment but sorry you have been upset 

I make mistakes all the time due to my poor vision and not checking b4 I post 

You make very articulate posts so dont take it to heart their problem if they cant get past an incorrect spelling 

You bring a lot to the community I always enjoy your posts and hearing what's been going on with you . I admire you as a person bringing all your children up and coping with theirs and your needs 

Ibelive2020

@janer1967 thank you means alot I look forward to your posts and everyone elses it's nice to know I'm not the only 1 going through lifes ups and downs the way I see things is there is always someone somewhere that is going too understand me 

janer1967

We understand you 

I've seen the comment now just ignore it sure not meant to upset or be personal dont think they think b4 they post at times 

Ibelive2020

@janer1967 thanks are you upto much on this chilly afternoon?

janer1967

@Ibelive2020 not doing much now just chilling been doing chores and stuff 

Want to try find a new course to study but dont know what I want to study next 

Ibelive2020

@janer1967 I'm just reading etc for lil bit b4 I start tea my children are upstairs in there rooms playing with there new xmas toys lol and I'm sat nx to my 5 year old twin boy hes playing peppa pig on his ds and my youngest child playing on living room floor watching tv 

janer1967

That's nice time together with your kids 

My son is out with his friend 

Ibelive2020

@janer1967 it's too cold here too let my children out its brass lol