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lisathomas50lisathomas50 Member Posts: 3,785 Disability Gamechanger
Sorry is the hardest  word to say  and I am sorry for any upset in some instances maybe I was out of line I would like to be given another chance I am not one for falling out I usually make friends quite easily I am a people person

This group at the moment is my life line  along with alotvof people I live on my own in the countryside  most of my neighbors  are shielding so I don't see anyone  and my suport worker talks to me more  on the phone as he isn't allowed in my house and its to cold outside 

I have made a few friends on here and hopeing to make more  so here I am asking for that 2ndvchance 


  • OxonladyOxonlady Member Posts: 381 Pioneering
    Hi @lisathomas50, I was just going to bed when I noticed your post on my phone...
    I think the current ongoing restrictions are probably making a lot of us irritable, anxious and even impatient. The lockdowns are not "normal" and have been affecting people emotionally and mentally.
    Personally, I've been housebound for 6 years due to chronic illness and disability and it's not pleasant to be confined in this way. 
    So I understand if you feel frustrated. We all say things we don't mean sometimes.
    I'm sure the lovely people on this forum will understand. 
    Wishing you a peaceful night. 
  • poppy123456poppy123456 Member Posts: 22,218 Disability Gamechanger
    @lisathomas50 I agree, it's an extremely stressful time we're having to deal with and not being able to go out when we want, where we want isn't helping either. Even more so for those that haven't been able to see their loved ones.

    I'm not the sort of person to bear grudges against anyone, that's really not the reason i'm here. I'm here to help others claim what they're entitled to. We have had a few members in the past that didn't like me but i think the friends i've made in the time i've been here certainly outweigh all those and for that i'm very thankful. There really is some wonderful people here on the community.

    I live quite a secluded life too so i know what it feels like not to have many friends, although i do have my daughters and grandson. So, lets start again, put the past few days behind us!

    It's been a very long day and i'm so tired. Night night :)
    Community champion and proud winner of the 2019 empowering others award. This award was given for supporting disabled people and their families for the benefit advice i have given to members here on the community.
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,894 Disability Gamechanger
    edited January 6
    Thank you, Lisa - of course you can start again. I also try to help people in my own way. I stayed here because of the support offered, & finding members so friendly. Goodnight. :)
  • janer1967janer1967 Member Posts: 9,090 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @lisathomas50 I respect you for taking the time and effort to apologise to the community and sure it is appreciated by others 

    Look forward to seeing you around and that you find the forum a lifeline 

    I live in small village and have no friends or family near tho I do see family occasionally if it wasnt lockdown 

    I live with my son si not alone but he is a teen and hardly comes out of his room unless it's for food however he us a great help to me 

  • lisathomas50lisathomas50 Member Posts: 3,785 Disability Gamechanger
    Thank you very much for all your kind words   night to you all 
  • lisathomas50lisathomas50 Member Posts: 3,785 Disability Gamechanger
    Joiner 1967 I was seeing family when we weren't on lockdown  but haven't seen them for months only on the facetime   my youngest grandchildren font understand why nanny doesn't see them 

    My mum has dementia and wants to k ow why she can't come to Wales to see me the world is such a different place the lickdown in wales has no end date  

     Let's hope  in the near  future  we have some normality 
  • woodbinewoodbine Member Posts: 3,710 Disability Gamechanger
    @lisathomas50 no worries ! x
    my advice is given freely and is correct to the best of my knowledge.
  • lisathomas50lisathomas50 Member Posts: 3,785 Disability Gamechanger
    Thank you woodbine 
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