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8 month old with no diagnosis yet.

Hello my name is Louise. I had twin boys in June last year and one of them suffered from lack of oxygen during birth causing brain damage. We were told the most likely out come would be spastic CP but to what level we don’t know. His brain damage was severe but so far he is doing well.
At the moment we can see he has a visual impairment of some sort so have been referred to a vision impairment service. We are just waiting for them to contact us. We also see a physio therapist every 6-8 weeks, speak to a speech and language therapist every month on the phone, and we also saw an occupational therapist for the first time this month.
I just wondered if there is anything else I should be doing? Or anyone else I should be speaking to? We have seen an ophthalmologist in the past and he has told us our son isn’t blind but can’t tell us how much he can actually see. But he didn’t mention anything about a vision impairment service, luckily the OT did and referred us otherwise nothing would be getting done and I would be thinking it’s normal as he’s too young!
I am planning on going back to work in June and have arranged for a nursery to take both of the boys and they know about Dylan’s history. They have a SENco there who will talk to us before he starts so should I be getting His therapists involved too so they can talk to the nursery?
Sorry for all of the questions!
At the moment we can see he has a visual impairment of some sort so have been referred to a vision impairment service. We are just waiting for them to contact us. We also see a physio therapist every 6-8 weeks, speak to a speech and language therapist every month on the phone, and we also saw an occupational therapist for the first time this month.
I just wondered if there is anything else I should be doing? Or anyone else I should be speaking to? We have seen an ophthalmologist in the past and he has told us our son isn’t blind but can’t tell us how much he can actually see. But he didn’t mention anything about a vision impairment service, luckily the OT did and referred us otherwise nothing would be getting done and I would be thinking it’s normal as he’s too young!
I am planning on going back to work in June and have arranged for a nursery to take both of the boys and they know about Dylan’s history. They have a SENco there who will talk to us before he starts so should I be getting His therapists involved too so they can talk to the nursery?
Sorry for all of the questions!
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It seems like you are getting lots of support
From my understanding being visually impaired myself and waiting for impairment team to contact me they are there to do assessment on safety and home and recommend adaptions or aids
I dint think they are involved in the medical side of the issue but I may be wrong
Just a warning I was referred in July and still not heard anything as they are limited service during covid fingers crossed you are not waiting as long
I agree that it sounds as though you're already getting a good level of support, which is great! If I think of any other services I'll let you know, but for now I thought I'd point you towards two services we have at Scope that might be of interest:
Navigate
Navigate is open to any parent or carer who:
It's a programme of up to 6 sessions with a personal adviser, who will help you to talk about your feelings and concerns.
The service will help you with:
- organising your thoughts and feelings
- practical advice and suggestions
- coping strategies and insights
- taking positive actions and helping you with emotional wellbeing
Parents connectThe service is free and for parents and carers who are:
The online sessions will be in groups of up to 12 parents or carers. There will be 6 parent sessions, usually one each week. After you apply we will try to find a time and date that will work for you.
Each session will:
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