Hi, I'm a single mum to an 8 year old

bella101

Hi I'm a single mom to an 8yr, my daughter has cerebral palsy effecting her left side, she has no use of her left hand at all. Last few years I feel there is more going on, possibly autism or ADHD but I'm still yet to find out, I feel I'm getting knowwhere fast with anyone, since all this covid stuff also I'm at the end of My rope, her behaviour and attitude is awful, I'm on the edge, I don't know how My life will ever move forward or be good, so lost 

janer1967

Hi and welcome on board 

Sorry to hear what you are going through it must be tough dealing with all that on your own 

I dont know what to suggest presuming your gp has been consulted.  Everything is on the back burner I guess 

We can be here to support have a look in our parents and carers section you may find others who can help 

Sandy_123

Hi @bella101 sorry your having a difficult time, here is a helpline you can ring for support and advice.

Helpline: 0808 800 3333

scope.org.uk

We are here too to talk to.

bella101

Thanks guys x

Ross_Alumni

Hello @bella101

Welcome to the community, I'm sorry to read things are difficult at the moment, but I imagine you are doing a super job and just want the best for your child. 

Where are you in the process of finding out about the possible autism / ADHD? Have you made enquiries about this?  I know it can take time, and the pandemic won't be helping at all, but please hang in there and fight to get your child, and yourself, the deserved help  

Are you receiving support from your child's GP or your local authority with managing her condition?

You might want to read about Scope's Parents Connect sessions, which offer a chance for parents of disabled children to meet others in similar situations and receive peer support. You could also consider giving our helpline a call to talk through any potential avenues of support in further detail.

I will also tag in @Richard_Scope, who is a specialist information officer for CP. 

Richard_Scope

Hi @bella101
Sorry to read that you are going through such a difficult time and I'm glad that you've reached out to us. My colleague @Ross_Scope has made some really good suggestions there. 
What sorts of things is your daughter doing?