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debsybel123 Member Posts: 4 Listener
 severely depressed PTSD copd cardiomypathy back and hips knackered, lost my mum 20/01/2020 and my brother on the 09/06/2020 my brother died because the hospital made a serious mistake they were suppose to put a drain in but missed and burst his bowel we begged specialists to take pin out because we new it would be fatal they said we carnt because it will kill him it one that alright he died 5 weeks later severe pain breathing problems I'm so angry right now both mum and my brother suffered terrible and now I have no go in me what so ever I hope this is the right place for me to do this if not I'm sorry and I'll remove it X


  • debsybel123
    debsybel123 Member Posts: 4 Listener
    Am I in the coffee lounge sorry it's my first time here
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Member Posts: 15,112 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi there 

    I an so sorry for all you are going through 

    It doesn't matter where you post it can be moved by admin if need be mainly so it gets the attention  9f other members in right place 

    Most visit coffee lounge tho 

    Are you getting support for yourself if not we can offer some guidance of where to signpost you to 

    Feel free to join in or ask any questions 
  • woodbine
    woodbine Community Co-Production Group Posts: 7,147 Disability Gamechanger
    @debsybel123 hi, sorry to hear about your losses, you might like to have a look at Crus for grief counselling:
    Be extra nice to new members.
  • debsybel123
    debsybel123 Member Posts: 4 Listener
    Hi if been trying to delete it thankyou as well for your time if admin or who ever could remove it for me I'd appreciate it an I'll try something else thankyou X
  • Ross_Scope
    Ross_Scope Posts: 6,663

    Scope community team

    Hello @debsybel123 and welcome to the community.

    I'm sorry for your losses, it sounds like you've been through an awful lot. Have you received any support following the passing of your loved ones? As mentioned above, Cruse might be a good place to explore ways in which you might be able to get help with your grief. Likewise, you can find support through the NHS.

    Did you also explore the possibility of making a complaint if you weren't happy with the way your brother was treated in hospital?

    These experiences seem to have had an impact on your mental health, understandably, you've been through a lot. Is your GP aware of what you have been going through and have you accessed support for your mental health from anywhere? You might find some useful information on the Mind website

    Regarding your back and hips, are the difficulties you're experiencing there impacting your mobility? Are you able to effectively carry out daily activities and do you receive support to manage those things?

    Your discussion is in the coffee lounge yes, but would I be right in thinking that you want this discussion to be deleted? That is what you imply in the comment above. Let us know and we can help with that if that's what you want :) 
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  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Posts: 8,195

    Scope community team

    Hi @debsybel123 :) How are you getting on? Have you had a chance to look at Ross' comment? 
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