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debsybel123
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severely depressed PTSD copd cardiomypathy back and hips knackered, lost my mum 20/01/2020 and my brother on the 09/06/2020 my brother died because the hospital made a serious mistake they were suppose to put a drain in but missed and burst his bowel we begged specialists to take pin out because we new it would be fatal they said we carnt because it will kill him it one that alright he died 5 weeks later severe pain breathing problems I'm so angry right now both mum and my brother suffered terrible and now I have no go in me what so ever I hope this is the right place for me to do this if not I'm sorry and I'll remove it X
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I an so sorry for all you are going through
It doesn't matter where you post it can be moved by admin if need be mainly so it gets the attention 9f other members in right place
Most visit coffee lounge tho
Are you getting support for yourself if not we can offer some guidance of where to signpost you to
Feel free to join in or ask any questions
https://www.cruse.org.uk
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I'm sorry for your losses, it sounds like you've been through an awful lot. Have you received any support following the passing of your loved ones? As mentioned above, Cruse might be a good place to explore ways in which you might be able to get help with your grief. Likewise, you can find support through the NHS.
Did you also explore the possibility of making a complaint if you weren't happy with the way your brother was treated in hospital?
These experiences seem to have had an impact on your mental health, understandably, you've been through a lot. Is your GP aware of what you have been going through and have you accessed support for your mental health from anywhere? You might find some useful information on the Mind website
Regarding your back and hips, are the difficulties you're experiencing there impacting your mobility? Are you able to effectively carry out daily activities and do you receive support to manage those things?
Your discussion is in the coffee lounge yes, but would I be right in thinking that you want this discussion to be deleted? That is what you imply in the comment above. Let us know and we can help with that if that's what you want
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