Hi everyone
today I had the letter to say that they decided I can do all of these things despite never meeting me face to face. I actually feel like they have responded to the wrong assessment as there are references to things that were not mentioned or acknowledged in my telephone assessment.
It was such a difficult conversation for me to have I sat alone as I wanted them to get a real feel for who I was without support and I had to keep stopping as I was getting upset to the point where I couldn’t talk, yet they reported that I showed no anxiousness I was confident talking about my health and I communicated well building a rapport with my assessor.
has anyone else had a situation like this? I also have physical problems which are aiding my mobility, and despite me filling my form in saying all of this it says they have decided I do not need help with getting dressed, I do not need help to cook a meal I do not need help planning a route….. we had an extensive discussion about that with me saying I only drive to school and back as I know the route very well, any where else someone comes with me as I have real anxiety about driving and getting lost/not been able to follow sat nav. She also put that I can play board games with my children, which is total rubbish as my 2 year old isnt there yet and my son gave all his board games to charity as he never played with them so I wouldn’t say something specific that was not true. Also as I can sit there and watch tv with my children I show concentration and motivation to do so….. I sit there zoned out just sat next to them. How can they make such awful judgments on people when the questions they ask they do not want the full in depth answer, they aren’t even seeing people in the flesh at the moment. I’m so angry and upset about it, they’ve made me feel like I’m lying about my condition, it’s bad enough having to admit I need help at the age of 36 never mind been belittled about it by someone who doesn’t even know me…..
how have people got on with their next steps of challenging their decision?