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Why Am I Like This.. none sympathy question
Firstly I am a bit Paranoid on what folks might think when you read the following.
I have always found it difficult to find a girl, and if/also maintain a relationship.
I haven't been out with a girl for years, this is my choice. I will explain why later.
I am fifty three years young. And not married neither in a relationship. And never have been.
Ten years ago I was out looking.... but I couldn't find her. I have had several opportunities, three women asked me out.
Do you want to join me for a drink. I didn't answer them, but just continued on with a change of subject
Some folks might be thinking why I'm not with a girl? I have mood swings. And I am/this makes me hard work. For me to live with myself. It's hard work.
I have mild learning problems. I get embarrassed when, or if, I was with a girl. If I couldn't do a certain task.
Now here is the question....
I have no interest whatsoever in women.
And I will quickly add nor with men.
Is it "normal" to be/feel like this
Saying this if the right girl came along and we clicked I would take the opportunity.
So I repeat the question...
Is it normal to be not interested in the opposite sex.