My son goes to mainstream secondary school. When he started he saw an occupational therapist as part of his transition who worked with school to help him settle. In their report they recommended my son does not take part in pe as it causes so much distress to my son.
School have ignored this and been making him take part and it’s causing so much trouble. My son is now refusing to go to school any day he has pe and school are just saying “well it’s part of the curriculum so all children need to do it” and my personal favourite “it wouldn’t be fair on the other students if he got to pick and choose what lessons he does, lots of children don’t like pe”.
On the days he’s made to do it he gets in such a state he ends up not working in his other lessons or so disregulated when he gets home that all he can manage is to go straight to bed until morning.
I can’t get an appointment with ipsea and not sure where else to go for advice. He doesn’t have an ehcp because both primary and secondary school said there was no point as he doesn’t need help with learning just socially and emotionally and sometimes instructions repeated and they’ve made other adjustments for him
Can school ignore the OT recommendation? And can I ask for no PE as a reasonable adjustment?