Hi Everyone,
I’m new to the forum and new to reaching out for help in general!
My Son is 9 years old and started at a mainstream school but was quickly moved to a SEN provision in a mainstream setting after 6 months. He has an EHCP and has been at his current school since reception.
At the time he joined this SEN provision they had multiple SEN trained TAs and two SEN teachers (one for infants, one for juniors). Since then there has been a high turnover of teachers, TAs, SENCOs. He is now in the junior class with a main teacher who, while he is great, has no SEN training that I’m aware of, and two TAs.
For the last year my Son has refused to go into school. I’m not sure what happened but he absolutely hates it there. To the point he has only been doing three hours a day for the last 8 months and 5 of those months I have had to sit in the classroom with him. Before that, he was not going in at all.
Since sitting in the class I have noticed how poor the education is that he is receiving. The TAs have their hands full and I had to insist another TA be present (there was only 1 teaching 4 children at one point) as two children were always left doing nothing while they were seeing to the others. When I then sat with them while they were showing him the work I noticed that what they were showing him was not even correct. The TA is lovely and I’ve no doubt they care about the children, but I do not feel he’s getting an education there. I just don’t feel they have the experience. I am still taking him into the classroom in the mornings and settling him for sometimes an hour before I can leave! They have no ideas or advice of how to help.
Also, he runs out of the classroom and at one point managed to almost get out of the school. I have asked them to close a gate that they have open which allows access down to the main reception/office door and have asked why it isn’t shut anyway as it’s a security risk, but they haven’t provided me with any reason why they can’t do this. This has made me feel uncomfortable leaving him there when he’s having a more difficult morning as I’m worried for his safety.
He is in Y5 now but I’ve really had enough and feel like I should look for a better SEN provision and ask for an immediate change to his EHCP as this just isn’t working anymore. Am I likely to be able to do this? He only has a year and a bit left until he’s leaving anyway but that’s a lot of time to waste when it comes to his education!