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Eyates02

Got my first autism assesment dates, 24th will be the first two sessions, then on the 28th I will have my final one, any tips for this, I mostly know to be myself and open up about my life and be honest.

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Alex_Alumni

That's really positive to hear @Eyates02 I think that's a good way to approach it

How are you feeling about it?

I don't have experience of an autism assessment myself, but with assessments I've had around my own disability growing up, I often felt that the assessor was there to support and listen to me, and help me to express my own opinions and thoughts about the levels of independence I wanted to reach.

To help our members share their experiences I've made this post unanswered, so hopefully there will be more comments soon.

If there's anything you need help with, do let us know, and I wish you all the best for it later this month.

Alex

Eyates02

Thank you! Yes it seems being my self kn the best thing, I feel like when I do talk to people face to face I'm a different person im more shy so it should show up more, it's just about me making sure I keel calm and remember to just be me ☺

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Libby_Scope said:

Yes, staying calm is important @Eyates02, but sometimes that can be quite challenging when we are nervous/a little anxious. I sometimes struggle with it, but I do have some tools that help me to calm down like meditation and breathing exercises. Do you do anything in particular to help calm yourself down?

When I'm nervous or anxious I end up stimming, I just need to remember that it helps for me to stim instead of feeling like I shouldn't do it, it's self soothing, I've been told to focus on my breathing as well before which I need to remember as well because if I panic I'll forget things or stutter.

Eyates02

Libby_Scope said:

That's great that you have those tools in your toolbox @Eyates02 you've got to do what feels most comfortable for you and it sounds like stimming is something that helps a lot.

It really does! Got soo many appointments this month it'll be nice when its all over and hopefully I get good news from it all, next week I've got my chat with Citizens Advice who'll be helping me get pip, so hopefully that goes well also 😊

Eyates02

Libby_Scope said:

It sounds like you're doing all the right things @Eyates02 and being super productive, so well done Although the appointments might seem initially daunting, it will be great to have more information and reassurance from professionals. I hope it goes well for you please keep us updated and if you need any other advice, just let us know.

I will for sure, it really helps to be part of communities which allow me to talk to others as well as open up about worrisome things, so thank you!

L_Volunteer

Hi @Eyates02

I just want to wish you all the best of luck with the autism assessments. Unfortunately, I was diagnosed with autism as a child rather than as an adult so I'm not sure what I would recommend other than the wonderful advice already provided. It sounds like you will smash it if you are just yourself as much as possible. You are more than welcome to talk to any of us if you just need a listening ear or have any other questions about this or anything else

Eyates02

L_Volunteer said:

Hi @Eyates02

I just want to wish you all the best of luck with the autism assessments. Unfortunately, I was diagnosed with autism as a child rather than as an adult so I'm not sure what I would recommend other than the wonderful advice already provided. It sounds like you will smash it if you are just yourself as much as possible. You are more than welcome to talk to any of us if you just need a listening ear or have any other questions about this or anything else

Thank you, I'll be sure to let people know how my experience goes, not long now 12 days until my first appointment, i do wish I went through it as a child but I'm still young at 19 so I still have a lot of my future to plan and this will really help 😊

L_Volunteer

Hi @Eyates02

I hope it helps too! I am really glad to hear there's not too much time left until your assessments now. I hope you get the answers you are looking for

Eyates02

L_Volunteer said:

Hi @Eyates02

I hope it helps too! I am really glad to hear there's not too much time left until your assessments now. I hope you get the answers you are looking for

Thank you! I'm so glad to know people such as yourself, really help give positivity!

L_Volunteer

Aww, thanks so much @Eyates02. That means a lot. Please know we are always here for you and we genuinely care about you

Eyates02

L_Volunteer said:

Aww, thanks so much @Eyates02. That means a lot. Please know we are always here for you and we genuinely care about you

Thank you ☺

L_Volunteer

You are always welcome @Eyates02

Rhodie72

Just be your usual self. That's how they diagnose the severity of your strain of ASD.

WORKED FOR ME!

L_Volunteer

Hi @Rhodie72

Thanks for sharing your experiences and continuing to support our community members. All your efforts have been recognised and are appreciated. How are you today?