Hi, my name is Laineyxo2! I've been referred for an interview with Capita after review. Any advice?

Laineyxo2

Hi, I'm new to the community. 
I sent away for my pip review in November last year and I phoned Dwp today to say my medication had doubled at night time as I'm struggling with anxiety, depression, eupd and cope by causing myself self harm. The Dwp told be I've been referred for an interview with capita and I'm up to high doe crying and worrying about meeting someone I don't know. It's really stressing me out its been 9 weeks from dwp recieved my renewal form....
Am I stressing out about nothing.. 
Please can anyone give me some advice 

Kind regards Elaine 

janer1967

Hi and welcome to the community 

Unfortunately the review process is taking a lot longer than that in some cases 12 months 

My sister in law is having review and got letter to say her award would stay in place till new decision was made which could take 12 months 

The assessment in most cases are still being done by phone rather than f2f 

Laineyxo2

It's terrible leaving people waiting in anticipation causing more distress than anything. Thanks for your comment

janer1967

The waiting is down mainly to backlogs and the situation everyone is in 

Dwp and capita are short staffed , working from hone , high absences due to covid etc the wait unfortunately is inevitable during a pandemic that has been affecting society for 2 years now 

Laineyxo2

Oh I know all about the pandemic I've lost my stepmother and grandmother within months of each other. My dad is in a home with final stages of dementia and I can't visit because they've had an out break so I'm totally understanding to the fact the country is in a pandemic, and my mental health is worse than ever.
Thanks for your insight

poppy123456

Hi,
The majority of people have assessments even for a review. At the moment these mostly take place by telephone, though some have been face to face. 

A change of medication isn’t a change of circumstances that need reporting, just so you’re aware. 

I realise it’s stressful waiting but all you can do is wait. If an assessment is needed once an appointment becomes available they will contact you.

Laineyxo2

Thanks so much for commenting, I just seem to be over analysing and working myself up and probably over nothing, unfortunately it's just the way I am.

Kind regards Elaine 

poppy123456

I think the majority of people always find reviews cause even more anxiety than usual. I know they make me feel this way too only i have double the trouble because i'm my daughters appointee, so i deal with her claim too.

Laineyxo2

My goodness you've a lot going on.... 
Kind regards 

Alex_Alumni

Hello @Laineyxo2

Thanks for reaching out with your query and I hope the community has helped you to feel reassured about things. How are you feeling today?

I was quite worried reading this:

I'm struggling with anxiety, depression, eupd and cope by causing myself self harm.

Can I ask what support you're getting for you mental health at the moment? You mentioned your medication has doubled, have you spoken to your GP about the self harm as well?

I can recommend these resources to help when stress and anxiety all gets too overwhelming, please take a look here:

• Mind has some very helpful information on how to get help when you feel in danger of harming yourself 
• You can also call Samaritans when you're struggling on 116 123 for free or send an email to
  jo@samaritans.org 
• If you'd prefer you can also text SHOUT to 85258 for support 24/7

Remember, if you feel like you might be at risk right now, please call 999 or visit your local hospital as soon as you can.

If you need any extra help or support please do let us know, you're not alone in this, and I hope you find the community a supportive place. 

Alex

Laineyxo2

Hi thanks for your concern, one of my problems is that I don't talk enough, so I appreciate your message. 

I have a psychiatrist, he telephone last week and I was having a total melt down, I haven't been sleeping well to top everything else of.
I have a cpn, they aren't very good at making contact I have to reach out to them when I'm feeling overwhelmed or in absolute crisis. 
My GP is very good I'm going on Wednesday for bloods and an appointment with her as I'm having burning sensations in my right hand that's getting worse and limiting what I can do.
My self harm is an ongoing battle that I'm managing to not do. 
I've exhausted myself with stress and worry 

Sorry for causing you concern

Kind regards Elaine 

Alex_Alumni

Don't apologise at all @Laineyxo2 I just want to help make sure you're getting enough support

Thank you for taking the time to get back to me, and explaining everything, that's very helpful. I'm glad to hear that you've been in touch with both your psychiatrist and your GP, and I hope your appointment on Wednesday goes okay. Perhaps you can let her know how exhausted you're feeling too.

It's very hard to let go of stress and worry, but talking about it is one big step. It's good that you're managing your battle with self harm, and you've got a good support network to call on if ever things get on top of you- that includes here as well.  

I've sent you an email to remind you of all the organisations you can contact if you need some help, and to offer additional support if you feel you need it, so do check your inbox whenever you can. 

Laineyxo2

Hi libby, 
Was just lovely to have a message from someone this morning. 

I spoke to my psychiatrist on the phone about two weeks ago when I was in the middle of a melt down, he was lovely and knows everything I've been thorough so my meds were changed.

My doctor prescribed 10 mg baclofen three times a day but its helping a little but making some sensations of burning worse...
I've had my bloods done, quite worried about the stiffness of my joints it leaves me exhausted. 

My mental health rapidly deteriorated 3 years ago when my baby was born premature and then died after 40 days. His anniversary and birthday is coming up also 

Really appreciate your message, very kind and thoughtful of you 

Kind regards Elaine 

Laineyxo2

Hi libby, 

I lost my mum when I was 15, and think this traumatised my childhood.

I like to go to noahs grave on the anniversary and his birthday 

My nanny was my rock, my confident and soul mate and she died last October... I just think everyone is going to die.

Yes I've told gp about not eating for days on end and she was great as well

I just have to try and be more greatful for what I have now

Kind regards Elaine 

Laineyxo2

Hi libby, 
Yes the grave is a short drive away and have a lovely head stone etc so it's nice to go to. 

I do try so hard to try and be in control of my emotions and grateful for what I have. It's hard a lot of the time and hard work to keep it up.

I wonder a lot of the time why me..... 

I miss my mum now more than ever even tho I'm 43 i have needed her emotionally all my life and my nanny filled that void for so long

It's not easy is it 😒

Kind regards Elaine 

Laineyxo2

Thanks very much Libby, it's made a real difference communicating with you today. Kind regards Elaine 

Laineyxo2

I've been feeling so wiped out with stress and anxiety I've had my bloods done twice now and my white blood cells are higher than normal and have to get bloods done again in two weeks. On top of this stress I still haven't heard about an assessment from capita. I'm too afraid to phone them. Has anyone any advice?? 

poppy123456

You only returned your form in November so you haven’t been waiting that long. Backlogs are huge in most areas and some are waiting several months for an assessment. In the meantime there’s nothing more you can do but wait. 

Laineyxo2

I'm more worried about my blood tests so everything going on in my life is emphasised to the limit. Thanks for taking the time to reply

Alex_Alumni

Hello @Laineyxo2 I'm sorry to read you've been feeling stressed out. If it helps, Mind has some tips on self care for when you're struggling with anxiety, which I hope you might find useful. 

Let us know if there's anything you feel we can help with further, we're here to support you.

Alex

Laineyxo2

I can't think just now I've exhausted myself so much 

Thanks for replying