Morning

Nicetomeetyou22

@SueHeath nope it's not that she's been verbally abusing me for years and she's sometimes hit me 2 xxx

SueHeath

Bloody Hell @Nicetomeetyou22 has your daughter got any problems bab - and i hope your partner helps you out with correcting her. This has saddened me to hear because i know you are a good person and a good mom, were on earth does this aggression come from xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

@SueHeath my daughter was bullied from reception all way through primary school now she's in comp the girl has been starting again but it's sorted and yes I have sought help about her behaviour I have had support with this tbh I think she has ADHD so I'm going to get her tested I was bullied all way through primary juniors and comp and believe you me it wasn't very nice plus she's gets upset at the babies I have lost plus the 1 baby that's hit her hard is Alex I was nearly halfway through my pregnancy in 2019 when he died inside of me as he had Edwards syndrome and all of his organs was on outside of his body it's his memory on 10th July so yep upsetting time for everyone xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

@SueHeath the reason I was bullied for years was because I was an orphan kid that's what they called me as I was brought up in foster care some of the things I got out through was awful xxx

Teigr

@Nicetomeetyou22 our daughter was diagnosed with ADHD when she was two years old;we had a professor come up from London to look at her and he said he'd never seen anything like her in his life.

I didn't know whether to feel proud or absolutely terrified.

Nicetomeetyou22

@Teigr I have 6 children 3 are registered as disabled with a wide variety of health problems and I have a 4th child who is on the send register at school she will be getting referred to a peadtrician then my oldest daughter who I think has ADHD I also have autism amongst other health problems it can be abit overwhelming at times for me but I just get on with things 

Teigr

@Nicetomeetyou22 I have a son with autism;both of mine are grown now (although he still lives with us) but their early years seemed to be a never ending cycle of hospital appointments and assessments.

Nicetomeetyou22

@Teigr I have a child with downs syndrome autism learning difficulties hyper mobility speech problems he's always gonna have mind of a 6 year old then my boy twin has epilepsy autism speech problems hyper mobility and he's always gonna have mind of a toddler then I have a other son who has autism hyper mobility speech problems and learning difficulties then my twin daughter has problems she's on send register at school she also has suspected autism 

SueHeath

Makes a lot of sense now @Nicetomeetyou22 with your Daughter _ bullying is an awful thing i have witnessed it in schools - i know how it can affect pupils does the school know it's started again. 
I just don't know how you cope with every thing - i think you were went to be their mom how well you do. 

Love your proud Foster Mom xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

@SueHeath yes school are aware but I have had enough so I have told my daughter next time she starts you stand up for yourself and give as good as you get wrong maybe but it's awful having this happen to my daughter as I know how she feels I went through it myself I'm sending you lots of love Mumma xxx

SueHeath

I used to tell my lads that @Nicetomeetyou22 fingers crossed it works for her, with out getting into trouble, but it is horrible - "MUMMA" ha ha ha Thanks ha ha xxxx

Teigr

@Nicetomeetyou22,that's a lot to deal with;I don't think I'd be able to cope.

Nicetomeetyou22

@Teigr I have routines for myself and my children I cope very well they are my children they are my world and I wouldn't change a thing everyone says oh how do you cope I smile and reply my children need me I need them and together we make a good team we go together like strawberries and cream I mean people do say awful comments to me about my children I have lost so called friends and family but guess what stuff them I need none of them 

Nicetomeetyou22

@SueHeath your welcome xxx

Teigr

@Nicetomeetyou22 I know what you mean,my own family used to say awful things about my children.

Nicetomeetyou22

@Teigr I got brought up in care lost contact with all my family then had kids started gaining contact then they was nasty so cut contact and I'm glad I have my so called mother and father have died my big sister and 2 my brother's have died it's my kids that keep me going and my partner and a handful of people on here esp my adopted mum @sueheath

SueHeath

Good Morning All It's THURSDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY xxx

Teigr

@SueHeath my favourite day of the week.

SueHeath

Morning @Teigr why's that ? 

Teigr

Morning@SueHeath.

It's the day our son does his 'voluntary' work and I get the house to myself for a few hours.