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Hi, my name is Kingcoin3010!

Kingcoin3010 Community member Posts: 1 Listener
edited June 2022 in Start here and say hello!
Hi I'm being domestically abused and I'm unsure what to do. I think I'm at risk of harm from my girlfriend but I love her. I think she has been gaslighting me but has been coerced into doing this by people I had once had trouble with I just don't know what to do. 


  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 52,535 Disability Gamechanger
    edited June 2022
    Hi @Kingcoin3010 sorry to read what your going through,  have you spoke to someone about this, you can get in touch with your local police, when you say risk of harm can you  tell us how but only if u feel able, if you feel like things are out of control you can ring 999 to get urgent help
  • Biblioklept
    Biblioklept Community member Posts: 4,726 Disability Gamechanger
    My first response is to say run, get away and don't look back, if you have doubts listen to yourself but I know it isn't that easy. 
    With gaslighting keep a record of things it'll make it easier for you to keep your mind straight and not get manipulated and confused <3 I'm sorry you're going through this. How long have you and Kelly been a couple? Is the abuse recent or always happened? 
  • Ross_Alumni
    Ross_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,652 Disability Gamechanger
    Hello @Kingcoin3010

    Thank you for speaking about what you are going through, and I'm sorry to read it, you don't deserve any of this at all.

    I have sent you an email from community@scope.org.uk to see if we can provide any support for you. Please give it a read and get back to us :) 
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