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Signs that you're getting old

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66Mustang
66Mustang Community member Posts: 13,668 Disability Gamechanger
Recently I got a tiny bit upset (although didn't say anything) because family members were glued to their smartphones and not interested in conversation.

I realised this is something that usually old people get upset about.

The funny thing is the "guilty" family members were much older than me!!

Have you recently done anything, or had something happen to you, that made you feel you're getting old?
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  • vikingqueen
    vikingqueen Scope Member Posts: 1,434 Disability Gamechanger
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      Getting up off a chair and doing the ufff sound ..  :/
  • Biblioklept
    Biblioklept Community member Posts: 4,682 Disability Gamechanger
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    Being called ma'am instead of miss by a delivery person :D 

    I also hear myself saying expressions my parents said.

    Oh and the other day I genuinely forgot how old I was. When I was a child I thought that it wasn't possible and it was something adults just said, but I really couldn't remember and had to work it out with my date of birth. 
  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Community member Posts: 13,668 Disability Gamechanger
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    Sound effects when getting up and sitting down is a good one!!
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,492 Disability Gamechanger
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    I went to a bar for a friend's birthday, and my first thought was that the music was too loud.
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  • Biblioklept
    Biblioklept Community member Posts: 4,682 Disability Gamechanger
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    I wish there was a funny button to respond to some of these :D 
  • Teigr
    Teigr Community member Posts: 3,448 Disability Gamechanger
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    Hearing myself talk about 'youngsters' the same way my mother used to talk about me.
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Community member Posts: 21,964 Disability Gamechanger
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    Having to have a birds and bees chat with my son 

    Some people have addressed me as his gran before I didn't have him till I was 39 
  • Biblioklept
    Biblioklept Community member Posts: 4,682 Disability Gamechanger
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    janer1967 said:
    Some people have addressed me as his gran before I didn't have him till I was 39 
     :o I'd never assume if someone was parent, grandparent or otherwise!!  

  • Ross_Alumni
    Ross_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,652 Disability Gamechanger
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    I was talking with a friend about something that happened in the past, saying it was a decade ago, to which he pointed out it was actually 15 years ago.

    I think my response was "When did we get so old?"
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  • leeCal
    leeCal Community member Posts: 7,550 Disability Gamechanger
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    You know you’re getting old when you bend down to tie a shoelace and wonder what else needs doing while you’re down there.
    (George Burns)

    “This is my simple religion. No need for temples. No need for complicated philosophy. Your own mind, your own heart is the temple. Your philosophy is simple kindness.” 
    ― Dalai Lama XIV

  • janer1967
    janer1967 Community member Posts: 21,964 Disability Gamechanger
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    The concern is the majority of times it has been a professional that has called me his gran 

    Eg doctors , school staff , shop assistants 
  • Karen7788
    Karen7788 Scope Member Posts: 598 Pioneering
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    Going into a nightclub with family and friends for my future daughter-in-law’s hen do when the bouncer looks at me and said there are seating areas on the second floor. 
  • woodbine
    woodbine Community member Posts: 11,656 Disability Gamechanger
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    If I pass the toilet I nip in and use it "just in case"
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  • Biblioklept
    Biblioklept Community member Posts: 4,682 Disability Gamechanger
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    Karen7788 said:
    Going into a nightclub with family and friends for my future daughter-in-law’s hen do when the bouncer looks at me and said there are seating areas on the second floor. 
    Ouch haha!! Did you go and sit in them? 
  • Karen7788
    Karen7788 Scope Member Posts: 598 Pioneering
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    Hi @Biblioklept, I had to after a few cocktails 
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 50,552 Disability Gamechanger
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    Getting up off the floor is a James bond mission in its self. 
  • Starlingbird
    Starlingbird Community member Posts: 169 Pioneering
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    Using all my energy to go upstairs to get something I need, only to forget what it is I want by the time I reach the landing.

    Even worse, getting half-way up the stairs, forgetting what I was going up for, going back downstairs....then remembering what it was, so set off up the stairs, get to the top....and forget AGAIN!!! 
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Community member Posts: 16,103 Disability Gamechanger
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    It was my grandson's birthday yesterday. My daughter had texted me the day before saying, 'Can you believe you'll have a 20 year old grandson tomorrow?' I replied, 'Makes me feel too old.' She texted back, 'Thought you're 27.' (I've told my children for too many years that I'm only 27, as that's how old I'm in my head). I replied, 'That's why having a 20 year old grandson is puzzling.'
  • leeCal
    leeCal Community member Posts: 7,550 Disability Gamechanger
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    I always wondered when exactly the small wee hours of the night were...I found out when I turned sixty.

    “This is my simple religion. No need for temples. No need for complicated philosophy. Your own mind, your own heart is the temple. Your philosophy is simple kindness.” 
    ― Dalai Lama XIV

  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Community member Posts: 12,420 Disability Gamechanger
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    I wish there was a funny button to respond to some of these :D 
    some think i would love x

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