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Having an extremely hard time applying for Shared Ownership as a disabled couple?

HomegrownJ
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I've contacted MySafeHome but their criteria is absurd, asking for "good or excellent" credit scores from experian, despite me having flawless credit history, and only one new account, and my partner never having had credit before (she's disabled and cannot have free access to money due to her condition). I'm her carer, and we're in receipt of all the right benefits, but our application was halted because they wanted absurdly good credit scores. How is this even possible, or fair? They wouldn't even consider our application even when I explained that my credit report is flawless. They only look at the score, for which experian is notorious for giving far lower than average scores. So that's £14.99 wasted. Are there any other schemes that aren't asking for an arm and a leg?
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Hello @HomegrownJ
Welcome to the community, it's nice to see you join usSorry to hear about this, it sounds very inconvenient. It isn't an area I have any experience of, but I wondered if you'd considered getting some professional advice for it? You could consider entering your postcode into Advice Local to see what support is available near you, or maybe you could contact CAB.
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The lender doesn’t look at your credit scores that you see. These are just made up numbers.They look at how you manage your money and your credit history. They also look at affordability. I know it’s not easy getting a mortgage even for shared ownership homes. Relying on benefits isn’t going to help either.My daughter moved into her first home with her partner and their son a few months ago. Between them the earnings are about £40,000 per annum. They have a 50% share in their home but it wasn’t a walk in the park to get there.HomegrownJ said:(she's disabled and cannot have free access to money due to her condition).I would appreciate it if members wouldn't tag me please. I have all notifcations turned off and wouldn't want a member thinking i'm being rude by not replying.If i see a question that i know the answer to i will try my best to help.
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poppy123456 said:The lender doesn’t look at your credit scores that you see. These are just made up numbers.They look at how you manage your money and your credit history. They also look at affordability. I know it’s not easy getting a mortgage even for shared ownership homes. Relying on benefits isn’t going to help either.My daughter moved into her first home with her partner and their son a few months ago. Between them the earnings are about £40,000 per annum. They have a 50% share in their home but it wasn’t a walk in the park to get there.HomegrownJ said:(she's disabled and cannot have free access to money due to her condition).
I'm talking about the Shared ownership scheme "MySafeHome" home owndership for disabled people. We fully qualify for the scheme, but they looked at the score, and not the actual report itself. They said that their specialist lenders want people with a good/excellent experian score, and that they wouldn't be able to help any further. I was just wondering if anyone else had any problems with their high criteria for credit score.
Also, my partner has a mental health condition that can cause carelessness with money, so it's advised that she doesn't have access to a bank account, or any reasonable amount of money. I have high rate carer's allowance as I am a full time carer, and we live in a situation where working just wouldn't be good enough, and we would actually earn less than we do now, which is not helpful as we are stuck renting privately at the moment. -
Then I’m afraid I have no advice for you on this one. Perhaps contact a local advice agency near you.HomegrownJ said:poppy123456 said:The lender doesn’t look at your credit scores that you see. These are just made up numbers.They look at how you manage your money and your credit history. They also look at affordability. I know it’s not easy getting a mortgage even for shared ownership homes. Relying on benefits isn’t going to help either.My daughter moved into her first home with her partner and their son a few months ago. Between them the earnings are about £40,000 per annum. They have a 50% share in their home but it wasn’t a walk in the park to get there.HomegrownJ said:(she's disabled and cannot have free access to money due to her condition).I would appreciate it if members wouldn't tag me please. I have all notifcations turned off and wouldn't want a member thinking i'm being rude by not replying.If i see a question that i know the answer to i will try my best to help.
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poppy123456 said:Then I’m afraid I have no advice for you on this one. Perhaps contact a local advice agency near you.HomegrownJ said:poppy123456 said:The lender doesn’t look at your credit scores that you see. These are just made up numbers.They look at how you manage your money and your credit history. They also look at affordability. I know it’s not easy getting a mortgage even for shared ownership homes. Relying on benefits isn’t going to help either.My daughter moved into her first home with her partner and their son a few months ago. Between them the earnings are about £40,000 per annum. They have a 50% share in their home but it wasn’t a walk in the park to get there.HomegrownJ said:(she's disabled and cannot have free access to money due to her condition).
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It has been a little while since you posted now @HomegrownJ. I am just wondering if you have had your call with the Local Housing Association yet and if so, how did it go for you?
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