Autistic child/disable mom

skhan95

Hy I have already received a lot of good advice from here but I need some more help please 
I have a child autistic and i Have disability as well we are in one bedroom flat 2 kids and me 
So many time police came because the neighbours are so disturbed because of my daughter as she is jumping banging the wall and running slot we are in 3rd floor.
recently I have contacted Mp about the situation and how it’s affecting our daily life and disturbance for neighbours and Mp put my case with council and the council have sent me the form to fill in and another form about medical documents and etc etc for me and my daughter I provided everything and after that I got a call from medical team one of the officer want to visit my flat just to see the living situation which is I’m ok with but I’m so nervous and not able to do anything at all I’m so nervous 
what should I think is it a good thing I mean they want to help us moving somewhere or just a normal procedure to put us in the housing regeneration list 
kind regards 

Ross_Alumni

Hello @skhan95 Lovely to see you posting again.

I think as above it seems as though they are trying to support you, so should be a good thing. Though I understand why it has made you worried. 

How are your children coping at the moment? 

skhan95

Yes we 3 share one room together my daughter is 3.5 years and son is 2.5 years old 

skhan95

Thank you so much 

L_Volunteer

You are welcome @skhan95. It is the very least you deserve. Thank you for showing your appreciation. If we can do anything else to support you further, please don't hesitate to let us know 

skhan95

L_volunteer 
thanks for your support today medical team officer came and take some more recent medical reports from me and yes everything went well he asked some questions as well and at the end he said he will make a report and pass it to the housing officer then they will make decision please pray for me that things go well for us as we are really struggling mentally and physically
thaks to everyone who has supported us and I will update you all once housing officer make decision  

Jo_2022

Hello @skhan95 🙂. Thank you for reaching out! It is great you are asking for advice. From what you have shared it sounds like you have a lot going on and that must be a huge weight on your shoulders.

I hope the council helps you find an accommodation that meets your families needs.

I feel you are doing all the right things for your daughter. Perhaps having her own room will give your daughter some space and time to herself, which seems like a good idea when an autistic child is stimming, having a meltdown or just overstimulated.

It is understandable for you to feel nervous and I wish the council team are nice. 

skhan95

Thank u so much

L_Volunteer

You are welcome @skhan95. It is the very least you deserve. If we can do anything else to support you, please don't hesitate to reach out to us