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How would you be texting a guy through online dating apps?

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  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,978 Disability Gamechanger
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    I hear you @Splatmate24. Not least that you think if a guy was interested he would be more willing to make time available. 

    It sounds really positive that you are looking out for yourself and doing what you need to do to take care of yourself  :)
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  • Splatmate24
    Splatmate24 Community member Posts: 388 Courageous
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    @L_Volunteer. I got a baby face . I look younger then my actual age and my actual age is 24 year old . I also noticed is doesn't matter what age a men can be they just be immature .  guys that are bit older over the age 24+ seem to be not interested in me . some younger guys seem to be has be more interested in me . one ex boyfriends from college still interested in me but I am not interested in him anymore since he also did cheated . I am not interested . through out Instagram I did ask if knew any single guys and did try to ask to be his boyfriend and I said no I am not interested in you . also happen with older guy that was 30 and was friends and he did reject me first about he said he was too old to me then after i stop then he reply again saying can you date me and I said no you said to me you are too old for me  . sending mixed signal is not good way to start .that was on Facebook . is seem to be very we rid to me they did rejected but change the mind too late when i did move on from them .

  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,978 Disability Gamechanger
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    It sounds positive that you are aware of what you feel as well as what other people feel @Splatmate24. Asserting those boundaries is really important too.

    It is key to taking care of yourself and I am really glad to see you are taking care of yourself in all of this. You are right, mixed signals aren't pleasant  <3
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  • Puja
    Puja Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 104 Courageous
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    @Splatmate24 hi You seem really knowledgeable and a lot more wiser than me at 24 and dating 😂 i hope its going well for you 🙂
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