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  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    I will do

    It's just the blood thinner made me very ill

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Community Member Posts: 8,747 Championing


    @Teigr
    Aww thanks, Iโ€™m glad yous enjoyed the wedding.
    Iโ€™ve been getting really anxious about it but Iโ€™m sure itโ€™ll all go well ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿพ

    Goodnight everyone โค๏ธ

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Posts: 4,275 Championing

    It is @amberpearl, i feel the same. I hope all goes well with your doctor tomorrow, please try not to worry I'm sure a more suitable blood thinner will be prescribed for you. Goodnight and i hope you get a good night sleep ๐Ÿ˜ด ๐Ÿ’ค ๐Ÿ˜ด ๐Ÿซ‚

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    Il ring the surgery and and, ask for a phone appointment then I can explain

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Posts: 4,275 Championing

    Good Morning @Amberpearl ๐Ÿ˜Š. I hope you're able to get an appointment today and that you had a good night.

    I've got an unusual question for you. If I eat something like, say, hoola hoops (very rarely!), I either have to eat them quietly ๐Ÿ™„ or crunch one into 4 pieces so my dogs can have a very small piece each. Do cats not eat treats in this way as I can't imagine how you'd split treats between 15 cats - they'd be none left for you!! Or do they just eat cat treats?

    Hope you don't mind me asking, genuinely interested, kept imagining you surrounded by 15 cats all wanting some of what you're eating.

    One of my dogs (the yorkie) stares intently when I'm eating anything, watches whatever it is going from plate to mouth like he's mesmerised by it ha ha.

    It takes me around 40-60 minutes in the morning to feed them/get their bowls/water etc ready for their day.

    When I had 3 dogs, I thought a 4th won't make any difference but it did, but I wouldn't change that and don't regret it even though he's a monkey!!

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 15,455 Championing

    good morning how is everyone doing this morning?

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 274 Connected

    Hey , is morning I'm at okay at moment being Monday and thinking one day at time .to see if I can go cycling.

  • Teigr
    Teigr Community Member Posts: 5,080 Championing

    Morning all.

    I'm shattered,I've had three hours' sleep(on the bathroom floor)and I can't wait to go home.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Posts: 4,275 Championing

    They're so funny aren't they? My old yorkie Jack used to dislike carrots but I'd put a few on his plate, he'd put it in his mouth for a couple of seconds but then would spit it out, but then he'd do it again and again and again with each carrot till they were all around/off his plate. They're such characters โค๏ธ ๐Ÿ’œ .

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    It takes me 3 hours every morning from getting up to sitting down with breakfast to see to my cats

    Can be exhausting

    Plus I check the liter trays and food bowls through the day

    A few are beggars yes

    They like cheese

    I'm. A vegetarian

    I fet fresh chicken for the cats and they go crackers for it literally squealing and fighting for a piece

    I did ring the Dr's surgery was so busy I pressed 1 for a call back

    Took the reception 45 minutes to return my call

    She s put me on the list for a phone call this morning so I can . Explain how bad reaction I had to the meds

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    I'm. Better than I was than when I was on those blood thinners that's for Sure

    Still have achy shoulders not too bad atm

    Although my pulse is 97

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    Yes 15 cats used tk have 20

    I had 9 pensioners at once. Unfortunately they all passed away

    It's absolutely heartbreaking for me when they leave me

    I'm. Very lonley. Anxiety stressed is so bad

    Been one thing after another

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    Nurse just rang

    I explained how bad a reaction was to the blood thinner

    She's sent another prescription for apixaban different one to the pharmacy

    Wants me to get it today

    She said I'm. Very high risk of stroke

    I said can't I wait til my cardiology appointment

    She said no as I. Could have a stroke any time

    What if this, med upsets me too

    I can't function like a zombie

    Who else would care for my cats

    Nobody

    They need me

    But I can't be a zombie either

    I. Mentioned my freind who. Hates all Dr's and vets and totally believe s in hostilic therapies

    Nurse said no no no

    And said not enough evidence they work

    I'm. So torn and upset my online freind would be so angry and worried if I. Took Dr's new drug

    She's totally vonv Dr's meds are dangerous and will kill me

    Nurse thinks the opposite

    I'm. Very upset now

    I. Feel like I'm. Been pulled apart. Nurse in 1 corner, online freind in the other both claiming they no what's best for me

    I. Can't take both together as they would interact

    What should I do

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    The cats are

    All I have

    I have to be in control of my faculty s

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Posts: 4,275 Championing

    @Amberpearl I cared for many patients on Apixaban and honestly cannot say I had any that had bad (or any) side effects. I'm not saying you can't get side effects as all medications can cause them but it is a very, very commonly used medication and the risk of a stroke is very real in untreated AF. There are no guarantees with anything but I personally would rather accept the risk of side effects from a medication than having a stroke or heart attack from just leaving AF untreated. It will not just go away on its own.

    I hope you make the right decision for yourself first and your little cat family. You owe it to yourself and them.

    If I may say so you don't owe it to your friend whose recommendations have the potential to be reckless and dangerous to you; and very misguided. What kind of friend would be angry with you for taking the advice of a specialist nurse or a GP practice nurse; I'd expect my friend to be supportive of my decision and that they had a bit of maturity in their advice.

    Sorry to be so blunt. We care about you @Amberpearl and want you to stay as well as you possibly can to enjoy each day but you have to make your own decision being fully informed which, I think from what your nurse said, you now are.

    I hope you find that they are straightforward to adjust to. Take good care and lots of ๐Ÿซ‚ to you xx

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Posts: 4,275 Championing

    By the way @Amberpearl , as well as qualifying as a nurse in 2013 I've always had an interest in holistic therapies. I'm a qualified reflexologist and Reiki Master for nearly 20 years as well as Colour Therapist, Crystal Healing and Chakra Balancing Therapist. I practised all of these regularly until I became very unwell from Covid.

    My point is that of course there's a place for holistic therapies. They cannot, however, take the place of conventional drugs. Nor, imo, can homeopathy. I am very grateful for all of the drugs I am on daily (including antibiotics and my heart medications especially!) that so far, have kept me here, as 'mother' to my beloved dogs ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿซ‚ xx

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Posts: 4,275 Championing

    Aaawww, little Pixie came from Gumtree. That's reminded me my Aloysius came from Preloved (I'd never bought a pet online before/wouldn't ordinarily). The previous owner sent me photos of him sitting in a big cage (all 2kgs of him!) with a huge bulldog type of breed. I'm pretty sure I know which one was trouble ๐Ÿซ . Attached a photo of the offender ! xx

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 274 Connected

    Hey, I'm not feeling great at today and my mum still doesn't help me with my emotions or anxiety. Is still same problem.about to get a blood test in the afternoon. Not sure . I feel frustrated, anxious and on edge on some of days. I'm not be diagnosed yet with anxiety but I thinks I do have but not sure.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    Wow your very clever

    Good jobs those

    I have 2 hospital appointments tomorrow so I was thinking of starting the apax one tomorrow jusr in case I get side effects as I. Have to fet the bus to the hospital then go chiropractor later on

    I can already feel my stress and anxiety starting

    So you are retired now? I'm. Been fortunate not to catch covid

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,916 Championing

    I'm so frightened pc side effects

    It's my birthday next week and I don't want to be ill

    The apixaban is 5mg the other was 20mg. Msybe too higher dose

    My freind means well. Sges a bit odd. Has no real freinds just finds people online

    No harm. In her