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Abcd1988
Abcd1988 Online Community Member Posts: 55 Connected
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I have a wonderful fiancéewho is a low earner worker and looks after me all the time when I get migraines all the time I feel sad I can’t work and won’t ever be on a good income and that partner works and I don’t

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  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 12,150 Championing

    Hi @Abcd1988 Do not be sad your fiance loves you the way you are. It is not something you have any control over. Have you had a recent appointment with your GP to see if you are still on the right medication?

    Always remember you are enough just as you are.

    Take care.

  • Abcd1988
    Abcd1988 Online Community Member Posts: 55 Connected

    thank you for your kinds words I over think every thing. Yes been on medication for over 20 years nothing helps

  • Wheeled_Weapon
    Wheeled_Weapon Online Community Member Posts: 335 Empowering

    It's like we're brought up to believe in 'Supposed to'.

    • Supposed to have done 'this' by that age.
    • Supposed to be married with 2.4 children by that age.
    • Supposed to be earning xxxx amount by that age. etc etc...

    Constantly comparing ourselves to others rather than just living our lives for ourselves and those we love the best that we can.

    I jokingly call money 'Social status tokens' because I think it's laughable that the value of a person is based on wealth and material possessions

    The only thing that should matter is being a good person and upholding your personal values/beliefs.

    I can guarantee your fiancée values you, and your love far more than all the money in the world.

  • Abcd1988
    Abcd1988 Online Community Member Posts: 55 Connected

    thanks very much

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