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I'm back home today and my mum already been stressing me out and been none stop being anxious throughout this holiday that been on. Is was same with airports to . My mum kept overwhelmed me and kept not asking for my consent to go into my personal stuff and that what make me so more frustrated with my mum and I get the point I just ended explosive into my mum and I don't think my mum respect me at all .
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Sorry to hear that @Katiedimelow20 I'm guessing you've already spoken to her, and this seems like it's a regular issue for you. Would it be possible to use a mediator like your GP or a friend, so they can speak to your mum on your behalf to let her know how much this is all affecting you?
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I take the poet, Philip Larkin's approach (Look it up).
Easier said than done these days, but how far have you looked into getting out?
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@Katiedimelow20 this is a difficult situation. Your mother does that because she knows you do not like it. Not because she needs to. You show annoyance and she enjoys it. I had similar issue and only way was leaving home. No need to be drastic but you could do the very same. Check on her stuff. If she does not like it you just tell her. Or do not show any feeling and maybe she will stop doing it. Some parents they believe they owe you.. but yes you talk to your GP and maybe they can say something.. it makes no point to get angry wirh your mother because she will keep Doing it. Unfortunately we do not choose our family.. larkin was right. They try to makes us like themselves even when they are far from perfect.
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I'm. In agony with my knee
Can barely walk
Climbing the stairs is, excruciating
So is getting on and off a seat
I can't even sit on a toilet seat
I've tried ice and paracetamol
Don't work
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@Schildpad my mum will come with me to doctors appointment with me even I when I ask I don't want them to. I can't really control my own life since my mum took over my health care and other stuff with a learning disabilities so I can't even move out since is Impossible. This not helpful. This just make me angry to
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Albus_Scope maybe but my mum will comes with me no matter if going out in public eg Sainsbury's or Tesco my mum will came . Only time that I have my own time at another charity that I go twice a day. I just feel anxious and frustrated and also stressed at same . My emotions already feel out of control and holiday was another add layer of anxiety and being anxious and has mask a lot . Did breakdown with anger explosive. Both my parents did shout at me .
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Ok matbe next time she needs to go to the GP for herself the GP could tell her. That is a very controlling behaviour.
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Good morning everyone.
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morning. Anorher day to deal with for several hours until bed time... I hope it will go well but already feel anxious.. anyway I have to go out...
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Painful
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Morning everyone! I hope everyone manages to have a mostly pain and anxiety free day. ๐
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Resting my leg
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Been in bed all day feeling unwell and trying to keep warm.
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Hope you both feel better soon @luvpink and @Amberpearl
Is anyone up to anything exciting at the weekend? ๐0 -
Thank you.
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afternoon. i seem to be more in pain than before. anyway at home in bed watching telly and tomorrow again i will have to go out i hope i will be able to cope with the commuting and dealing with people. now it is time to try to relax.
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Fifi ashes ready to collect i just crumbled makes it all real I cannot collect i just cant face it im absolutely heartbroken i miss her so much the light has gone out of my world i dont care for anything anymore she was my everything when they said fifi ashes ready my heart broke even more its real she's gone she's really gone my soul doggy my love my heart
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It's a horrible thing to deal with @Catherine21 have you thought what you might do with the ashes?
I had some of my old dog, Leeloos ashes mixed into a silver ring, which I never take off. And my old black panther of a cat, Deez, had his ashes scattered under the liner of the pond I dug, as oddly he loved water. So they're both with me when I want to say hi to them. They may be physically gone, but they're always with me, just as Fifi will always travel with you. โค๏ธ
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We will get a necklace with fifi ashes in it i just cant face it my heart stopped when they said ready to collect made it all real my god I miss her I've kept myself so busy literally chopping massive tree in garden and doing neighbours garden normally I dont like being seen but had to get out of house got to apply for UC as well could do without that but it is what it is losing fifi is worse than anything that can happen to me im blessed I have pixie and dont take that for granted but had fifi from two months she was so so so intuned to me and extremely clever dog my heart my love my best friend a great great loss im thinking why did I get her teeth done did I make her worse as 10 days after she was gone god I did to get extra years god its so heartbreaking
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