HELP

seb123
seb123 Online Community Member Posts: 2 Listener
edited December 21 in Autism and neurodiversity

HI my name is Sebastian and my sister has a 11 years old boy with severe autistic spectrum.

He has the most beatifull simile in the world.

From when he was 10 he start to be super violent he punch himself in the head and bites himself and us and hits us with his head.

He has no shame in doing this even in the public.

Most of the time he does that to give him what he wants like alot pf sugar and fizzy drinks.

My siter she is destroyed mentally emotionaly and physically.

Me and my mom we and my dad we come to help her everyday.

We soend time with her we do activities with him we help her to change him ect.

My sister and our family we want to put him in a care home permanently.

We dont feel safe anymore around him.

The stress levels are 1000% and we saw that many parents that they put theire children in care homes due to theire behaviour they seen a big change in theire children bihaviour meaning they are calm 100%.

We want to put my sister into a parents group with autism to help her coope better with her son and to make new friends.

My sister doesnt have no friends only me and my parents.

She has not been out in many years due to the child behaviour.

Of anyone can help us with more support my number is [removed by moderator - personal information]

Thanks

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  • Andi66
    Andi66 Online Community Member Posts: 1,312 Championing

    Get in touch with the gp, see if they can refer you to cahms. I went through the same with my daughter from age 10. She was diagnosed at 14

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Online Community Member Posts: 1,016 Championing

    So sorry your family is going through is.Its difficult to make judgement from just one post and especially when your all feeling so overwhelmed.I completely understand ( to a point atleast).I think you all need some help and support.Perhaps this could maybe start with some respite care.Im not sure how these systems work.Im almost at that point too although my situation is somewhat different to your families.I think the safety of everyone always comes first obviously.Each persons situation is different.I think the GP needs to organise something A.S.A.P so everyone feels able to continue on.Once a plan of action is there then atleast you and your sister will feel someone is listening and able to help perhaps

  • seb123
    seb123 Online Community Member Posts: 2 Listener

    If u understand only to a point Ok than.

    But we need extra support cuz we put the child first all the time.

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