Suicidal Feelings
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My husband does so much for me, he's not a nasty person,I think I've just pushed him to the edge too, we lost one of our cats in July and I've been so sad about it, I've really struggled, I'm menopausal, my health issues are worse and my pain is awful.
he thinks I'm not trying, that I put no effort into anything, when honestly it's an effort to just get through every day...he thinks me saying I can't do something is an excuse. But I don't want to speak badly of him, I've loved that man for 33 years and we've been through so much together...I just want to stop feeling so useless and sad all the time.
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That's a lot to deal with @Clare75. As you say, perhaps your husband is just feeling the strain of it all. That doesn't mean what he said wasn't hurtful, but it sounds like you're both struggling with how things are despite how much you love each other.
So sorry to hear you lost another of your cats. Some other members were just chatting about how difficult it is over in our Pets Corner chat. It's so heartbreaking and if you're facing other things at the same time it can hit you even harder.
Hopefully you can get through to your GP and they can start putting some things in place to help. Do they help with your pain levels too? If you're struggling perhaps they can refer you on somewhere to help you feel more comfortable. Fingers crossed you get through tomorrow morning.
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Im so sorry you feel this i lost my fifi in september its so so painful and im in menopause its so easy to knock ourselves and really be cruel to ourselves you have a reason to feel all these feelings and thoughts we all are unqiue and we are all different partners families get upset at times and can try to motivate you in thier own ways its so important that you try not to punish yourself it makes the journey so much harder i loved my fifi she was my whole heart and i grieve everyday second and no one can tell me not to i deal with that my way and if its screaming crying stay in bed somedays then thats what it is im not lazy useless id like to see some people take on the menopause for some thats a whole different kettle of fish !! Be gentle with yourself ps for menopause i take collegan and its helped with achy joints i take life day by day now ive got up made a cup of tea even the little things making a cup of tea is a start your not alone sometimes expessing yourself helps a bit
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