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  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 2,828 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Let the tears flow @Strawberry1, there's nothing wrong with it. I cry all the time and sometimes in embarassing places! We're entitled to feel our feelings and you've just gone through a stressful assessment.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Thank you so much @Rachel_Scope

    Im so very grateful to you

    Best wishes always

    Hope you have a peaceful rest of your day

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    I asked the assessor @Rachel_Scope about DWP stuff

    Been making calls but I dunno what to do

    Feeling so over whelmed at the moment

    Dont know if im strong enough to deal with them

    Theres some sensitive information on my medical records

    So im not sure whether to continue dealing with them

    Gonna take some time out @Rachel_Scope

    Things feel mind blowing at the moment

    Sending peace and harmony your way

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 2,828 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Maybe rest for today and tackle things tomorrow, or whenever you feel more up to it. There's no rush, you need to look after yourself.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Im gonna take some time out @Rachel_Scope

    Thanks for your support

    Hope the rest of your day is peaceful

    Best wishes to you and your family

    Take care

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 3,562 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    Taking some time out sounds like a good idea, it sounds like it's been a very full on and emotional day and a diagnosis can be overwhelming. Please be kind and gentle with yourself @Strawberry1

  • Biblioklept
    Biblioklept Online Community Member Posts: 582 Trailblazing

    It took me quite some time to process all my emotions when I got my diagnosis @Strawberry1, you'll be feeling so many different things all at once and that's okay!! We're here for you โค๏ธ

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 631 Empowering

    glad you got the answers you needed @Strawberry1 and you got told immediately.

    It's perfectly understandable and valid to cry.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Thank you @Mary_Scope

    I appreciate your support

    Very grateful

    Best wishes you always

    Hope u have a peaceful evening

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Thanks @Biblioklept

    Sorry for my late response

    Yes i think i will feel similar as i did when i got adhd diagnoses

    Im so very grateful for your support and kindness

    Basically My brain just works differently thats all

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Very grateful to you as always @Nightcity .

    I was 98 to 99 percent sure i was

    Then i wasnt going to go through with it

    But Im glad I did

    Thank you for your kindness , support and time

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    How are you doing @Nightcity

    Hows your mum ?

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Hope everyone has a peaceful evening

    Please take care of yourselves

    Best wishes always

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,052 Championing

    Strawberry ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ“

    I'm so happy for you!!!!!!!!!

    What a relief to find out on the day. I've no idea what the levels are about but it doesn't matter; you have your diagnosis and you're right, we do know and just need it confirmed.

    You are officially AuDHD and you've waited all your life to hear this. I won't tell you how long I cried for and just wish I'd found this forum back then. It's brilliant news! Congratulations Strawberry!!!

    ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Chat soon @WhatThe

    Just sorting some chores out

    Thank you

    Take care

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 631 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1097997#Comment_1097997

    not too bad thanks still a few health problems to solve.

    mum is doing good thank you.

    hope you have a great evening and well done again for getting through today.

    I'm level 2 and 3, apparently the overlap was significant and 50/50 by aspects which is unusual, in layman's terms I need help about 70% of the time to stop my memory, learning issues, coordination and judgement causing problems.

    I'll unfortunately live a very restricted life in terms of independence.

    for example I can do basics like get dressed, clean teeth, put myself to bed

    but can't use a microwave or washing machine correctly no matter how many times I'm shown.

    I can't socialise face to face or by phone at all which has got worse over the years I don't go out at all now just seeing a person ANY person will give me a panic attack, if they tried to hold a conversation I'd get stroppy potentially injuring myself or swearing at them in a stressed panic before walking away quickly.

    if anything happens to mum I'm cooked, It haunts me 24/7.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Hi @Nightcity , i hope u get the best help with the health issues without any more hiccups and i hope its quick

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    I have been made aware of the different levels @Nightcity .

    Mine is Level 1

    Ive looked up little bits about Level 1 but not too deeply yet

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Your one of the nicest people on this forum @Nightcity and its heartbreaking to know you have so many things to deal with .

    We are who we are

    I know for sure though with or without the things u have to deal with

    You are a person with a big heart .

    Until today I hadnt been sure of much about Autism even though i have asked questions about it .

    It must be a big worry for you in regards your mum

    I would hope to think things will be put in place so you can transition smoothly

    Hope until that time comes you have many good times together the best you can

    It is heartbreaking to hear of your intense issues but u are you and thats ok

    Thanks for your past and present support

    Forever grateful

    Many many thanks always

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Thank you so much @WhatThe , always grateful to u on so many levels

    You have always made me feel welcome here and always been non judgemental .

    You are one of those special kind of people who always thinks of others

    A very special gift you have

    Ive been told Im ASD1

    Apparently the info is going to be given to my gp so it will definately be on my medical records

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