If you could go back in time and change one thing, would you do it?

Rachel_Scope
Rachel_Scope Posts: 3,637 Online Community Team
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I love discussing this topic as it makes you really question a lot of things.

If you changed that one thing, where would you be now? Would it be better or worse than where you are now? How could you know? Would changing that one thing make a difference or would you need to change multiple things?

One thing I would change is reaching out for help when I was child instead of suffering. But then I think about who/what I'd be now and if I would still meet my husband and have my children?

Sorry this is a lot of questions and deep thinking for a Monday 😅 I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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  • SheffieldMan1976
    SheffieldMan1976 Posts: 1,895 Connected

    I'd go back just over 35 years to Valentine's Day 1991, my ex at school asked me "Are we gerrin' married then?", and I'd change my response to "Yeah go on then", even if I didn't get on with her Brother.

    It'd be interesting to see if the kids inherited my problems, well there'd be a 50/50 chance of that.

  • JessieJ
    JessieJ Community Member Posts: 1,372 Championing

    I would have chosen a different career

  • OverlyAnxious
    OverlyAnxious Community Member Posts: 6,028 Championing

    This is an interesting question. I don't remember any specific opportunity that I passed on and now wish I'd taken. But there are plenty of things I would change if I'd had the opportunity at the time.

    I suppose I should say that I would have sought help with my conditions earlier… However, I never received any help when I eventually did ask for it. So was it even available when I was younger? I doubt it. Perhaps children's services would have been more useful than adult services, but I'll never know now.

    (Possibly a bit deep for this thread but I still wish I'd ended everything towards the end of primary school. I don't think any other single change could have prevented the situation that I find myself trapped in now.)

  • kreacher
    kreacher Community Member Posts: 366 Empowering

    i would go back in time and make sure steve irwin wasn't in that bit of water filming

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,954 Championing

    Never ever to have gone on a blind date with my. Now ex husband

  • amazingblazing628
    amazingblazing628 Community Member Posts: 112 Contributor

    If I Could Change 1 thing it would be to have Never got Married at all.

    I Luv All my Children but i would rathet not be married as it restricts you so much and dont always agree on everything what i know now i would have been better to stay single as been married complicates things as we have differant opionions on lots of things in life.

    I wouldnt be in the situation i am in now if i was still single and with as many health problems i do have caused by other people.

    Amazing blazing628

  • SwiftFox
    SwiftFox Community Member Posts: 1,117 Championing

    The whole world..And slow it down a touch

  • vikingqueen
    vikingqueen Scope Member Posts: 2,019 Championing

    I wouldn't change a single thing, became if I did i wouldn't be where I am now.

    Yes there have been bad times which I wish never happened but they led me to this point and I'm exactly where I'm meant to be.

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