what disability do you have any one else got muscular dystrophy?

baller
baller Posts: 29 Connected

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  • onmylonesome
    onmylonesome Online Community Member Posts: 618 Empowering

    I've just googled that mate and wow I feel for you pal.

  • baller5
    baller5 Posts: 32 Connected

    Becker here too mate i couldnt reply because they banned me my own fault haha but tried to rejoin and they banned that too couldnt even log on if i get banned again was good to meet you i dont know anyone else with MD

  • baller5
    baller5 Posts: 32 Connected

    did chris vanish? sorry if I upset him I tried to reply before now

  • SoapySoutar
    SoapySoutar Online Community Member Posts: 211 Empowering

    Hi baller, do you get any help from the medical profession? I don't even get the annual neurology appointment any more.

  • baller5
    baller5 Posts: 32 Connected

    Not seen neurology for at least 18 months not sure if they're still meant to, its been rubbish for years now. I see cardiologist more than them dont even see physio any more was left with home exercises 🙄 am waiting on home OT assessment

    what about you?

  • SoapySoutar
    SoapySoutar Online Community Member Posts: 211 Empowering

    I attended an annual appointment at the neurology department for the first 20 years since diagnosis, but 2 years ago, they suddenly said sort of 'only contact us if anything major changes'. The neurologist even stated they can't cure MD, which i've known from day 1.

    I can only assume that when we get to a certain age, they put us out to pasture. I had assumed me turning up each year was for them to note the decline, for future medical research or whatever.

    My biennial cardiology appointment still happens, as far as I know.

    As for physio, they signed me off years ago, as I wasn't getting any stronger? You can tell them about muscular dystrophy all you like, they never seem to take on board that it is a muscle wasting disease.

  • baller5
    baller5 Posts: 32 Connected

    Put out to pasture LOL thats exactly how it feels

    appointments are like they seeing me because they have to tick a box not because there's any hope for change or care just counting down until i'm past it and they no longer have to see me

    is it alright to ask how old you are @SoapySoutar?

  • SoapySoutar
    SoapySoutar Online Community Member Posts: 211 Empowering
  • baller5
    baller5 Posts: 32 Connected

    46 in august, feel like im about 100 most days though

  • SoapySoutar
    SoapySoutar Online Community Member Posts: 211 Empowering

    Well at least we are lucky having Becker and not Duchenne. Imagine being like this since a toddler.

  • baller5
    baller5 Posts: 32 Connected

    too true its why i still count myself lucky

    have you known anyone with duchenne? I dont know anyone else with md apparently there used to be a chat room but it went

    do you have many people supporting? im on my own now even my son doesnt bother but he has his own family, 2 year old granddaughter

    never thought i would be a grandad at my age or at all really

  • SoapySoutar
    SoapySoutar Online Community Member Posts: 211 Empowering
    edited March 27

    I have met Duchenne sufferers at the MD conference, but that was a number of years ago, I don't really go any further than a few miles from my door nowadays.

    My grown up children don't bother with me either, and the ' been very busy' line grew old. It is what it is.

    The Talk MD forum was good about 15 years ago, but it fell away to just the odd person coming on, asking their question, never to be seen again. We are a small group, us Muscular Dystrophy types.

  • baller6
    baller6 Posts: 7 Connected

    i tried to do a post saying thanks and bye to you @SoapySoutar but they wouldnt let it through, i hope youre alright and sorry you got trolled for trying to talk to me. youre one of the good ones and one of few that seemed to understand anything i was saying

    sounds like your grown up children are the same as mine

    im the same cant remember the last time i went anywhere, round the block once a day

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,471 Championing

    baller, I hope you don't leave as you are both good guys! He is one of the reasons I stay.

    I also get trolled when I dare to use my voice.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,471 Championing
    edited March 29

    We are told that Scope is trying to restore the PM (private message) function on this site.

    Until then, new members such as yourself are at a disadvantage without this extra peer support. You are double-disadvantaged with your comments queued so other members need to remember this. You also can't yet edit your posts like I just did.

    There is minimal moderation at weekends btw.

  • SoapySoutar
    SoapySoutar Online Community Member Posts: 211 Empowering

    So when were you diagnosed with muscular dystrophy @baller6, and what prompted you to seek medical help? I think i mentioned i was 28 years old, and was struggling to climb the stairs at home. My then wife demanded i contact my GP.

  • Community_Scope
    Community_Scope Posts: 2,164 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Note from the Online Community Team: A number of posts have been removed from this discussion to allow it to continue on the intended topic. As stated in the House Rules, please try to keep discussions civil and supportive, and flag any further concerns with the community team.