Let down by social care
Kellans38
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Hi have learning disability and I have been badly damaged with years of professional askin 4 help been seen from different people saying I need things never ones have I had help from them and professional service asking 4 me 2 be referred
I been let down never had assessment like they was ask and it's 2 a point I oh ready lost my life ones with heart attack alone with everything else my things from my home with being left there at risk and my girl if I could just get help I have always asked 4 instead of people not doing anything I wouldn't of been through what I have my kids have not had it easy because I never once got my voice heard seen 2006 and now 2 go through he'll 4 this long when it's clear to learning disability team I have problems and let me fight against everyone and still now not getting it
I have had social care put me through so much I have never had things done that with ever referral that has been made ever year I been knock back from some but when they came again years later still didn't bother assessments on my needs around 2011 few weeks she stayed didn't do anything like doctors asked care plan was ment tof be done 4 when I was ill with my back and been again 4community LD team once again not doing anything I don't no how they can not help someone after its clear on paper work from other people I have learning disability and health need and care plan in place what only 10 hours but can't help with what I have got so much going on years of advocacy and there is so much that I have been through and years of 13 14 15 with advocacy and asking for things to be done on matters and not 2 be and 2018 and lost everything because of not been helped I no if I wasn't someone that could do it with out being help and didn't disability but 2 have so much that going on and stI'll no help I die and I have more health problems but still not getting the help makes me sick
how I can have so many people involved over the years and not do anything to get the support I need and three kids but my lads r older they have learning disabilities and all I have asked 4 was help and never got it apart from stress with me begging 2 get help and support me and help my family but didn't care and my girl still not getting help oh she still at risk I have done everything 2 get people to help mental health issues and there left me years fighting them and 2 late damge 2 her done because of them leaving it years and didn't go to court till she was 15 last year that was because of her putting her self at risk all the time but the harm that happened to her because of being let down ever Local authorities have done something to hard me and my family and that because they get away with it and to me if they can do this 2 a family 4 this long and do what they have to my family then I really don't get how they sleep at night because I can a sure what I have had done to meveryone and my family don't think people would belive it shock a lot of people just like it does my support workers but they seem to get no where when they try help me
so what change I will have now in getting a voice will never happen and help will not get done not after years of pefessoal been involved and still no closer that after been rush in hospital 4 weeks and dieing and fighting in ICU still no help 4 me and my girl apart from left at harm and risk 4 year and treatetd like enough after my girl fighting 4 her life as well and she now 16 just and still not safe and risk that in care beaten raped by different men think it's OK 2 do thi's to kids tho but she now the case she things it's fine 4 men to get her drug's and drunk and that not OK but I can't do anything not like I have reported everything my girl does and has done but that all I can do when I can't do it on letters and other things when things have been just never bothered in sorting oh doing a thing about and that because they can treat people like this when they can't get the right help support to get a voice
I been let down never had assessment like they was ask and it's 2 a point I oh ready lost my life ones with heart attack alone with everything else my things from my home with being left there at risk and my girl if I could just get help I have always asked 4 instead of people not doing anything I wouldn't of been through what I have my kids have not had it easy because I never once got my voice heard seen 2006 and now 2 go through he'll 4 this long when it's clear to learning disability team I have problems and let me fight against everyone and still now not getting it
I have had social care put me through so much I have never had things done that with ever referral that has been made ever year I been knock back from some but when they came again years later still didn't bother assessments on my needs around 2011 few weeks she stayed didn't do anything like doctors asked care plan was ment tof be done 4 when I was ill with my back and been again 4community LD team once again not doing anything I don't no how they can not help someone after its clear on paper work from other people I have learning disability and health need and care plan in place what only 10 hours but can't help with what I have got so much going on years of advocacy and there is so much that I have been through and years of 13 14 15 with advocacy and asking for things to be done on matters and not 2 be and 2018 and lost everything because of not been helped I no if I wasn't someone that could do it with out being help and didn't disability but 2 have so much that going on and stI'll no help I die and I have more health problems but still not getting the help makes me sick
how I can have so many people involved over the years and not do anything to get the support I need and three kids but my lads r older they have learning disabilities and all I have asked 4 was help and never got it apart from stress with me begging 2 get help and support me and help my family but didn't care and my girl still not getting help oh she still at risk I have done everything 2 get people to help mental health issues and there left me years fighting them and 2 late damge 2 her done because of them leaving it years and didn't go to court till she was 15 last year that was because of her putting her self at risk all the time but the harm that happened to her because of being let down ever Local authorities have done something to hard me and my family and that because they get away with it and to me if they can do this 2 a family 4 this long and do what they have to my family then I really don't get how they sleep at night because I can a sure what I have had done to meveryone and my family don't think people would belive it shock a lot of people just like it does my support workers but they seem to get no where when they try help me
so what change I will have now in getting a voice will never happen and help will not get done not after years of pefessoal been involved and still no closer that after been rush in hospital 4 weeks and dieing and fighting in ICU still no help 4 me and my girl apart from left at harm and risk 4 year and treatetd like enough after my girl fighting 4 her life as well and she now 16 just and still not safe and risk that in care beaten raped by different men think it's OK 2 do thi's to kids tho but she now the case she things it's fine 4 men to get her drug's and drunk and that not OK but I can't do anything not like I have reported everything my girl does and has done but that all I can do when I can't do it on letters and other things when things have been just never bothered in sorting oh doing a thing about and that because they can treat people like this when they can't get the right help support to get a voice
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Hi @Kellans38, thank you for sharing this with us.
I'm so sorry to hear about your experiences and what you and your family have been through. Given the situation, I wonder if it might be best for you to give Scope's helpline team a call and explain your circumstances to them, to see if they can assist? You can contact them for free at 0808 800 3333 or find other methods of contact here. Wishing you all the best.
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