Lonliness

Kathryn01
Kathryn01 Community Member Posts: 7 Connected
edited September 2018 in Everyday life
Is there any help for disable d people that are isolated after having a full and active life

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  • Chloe_Alumni
    Chloe_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 10,506 Championing
    Hi @Kathryn01, thank you for coming to the community about this. I am sorry you are feeling isolated. Do you have any hobbies? We have the coffee lounge where people discuss all sorts of different things that you may find helpful :)
    Whereabouts are you based? There may be different groups that I can look into for you.
  • Kathryn01
    Kathryn01 Community Member Posts: 7 Connected
    I have friends and s wonderful husband but a lot of my friends  are  working and have own lives and families to see to I know I sound like someone who  Is a drama queen  I was used to working and having a full life it's the doing nothing that I can't standardise  I live in Atherton Manchester 
  • Markmywords
    Markmywords Community Member Posts: 416 Empowering
    You are perfectly normal @Kathryn01 . Most of us feel / have felt this way. Socialising with an accepting group with similar experiences is something most of us would want.
    As @Chloe_Scope said, perhaps a hobby, volunteering or special interest group would be a place to start. Obviously it has to be something that you are physically capable of.
  • Kathryn01
    Kathryn01 Community Member Posts: 7 Connected
    Thanks guys I would love to help out if there was something I could do
  • Pippa_Alumni
    Pippa_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,761 Championing
    Hi @Kathryn01, lovely to meet you!

    There appear to be a few opportunities near you which you can see on this search- if you like the look of any, it might be worth contacting the organiser and discussing your needs, to see if there's anything suitable. Do let us know how you get on and in the meantime, there are always lots of people up for a chat here on the community!
  • SylviaMorrison72
    SylviaMorrison72 Community Member Posts: 17 Connected
    Hi @Kathryn01 I am new to this too! I am on my own I have my son(22) he is always in his room!! Lol! I don't mind chatting but I found a group which I attended it helps me so much! Xxx 
  • debbiedo49
    debbiedo49 Community Member Posts: 2,890 Championing
    Me too! I have volunteered. I have joined some groups I like run by a  m h charity. I really don’t go out much and it’s very lonely that’s why Scope is great. I work part time which I enjoy. good luck 
  • SylviaMorrison72
    SylviaMorrison72 Community Member Posts: 17 Connected
    We actually had a day out in Southport yesterday!! I hope you find a good 1 that gives you such a boost! Good luck xxx 
  • Kathryn01
    Kathryn01 Community Member Posts: 7 Connected
    Thank you all I will try to get in touch 
  • LittleGizmo86
    LittleGizmo86 Community Member Posts: 79 Contributor
    Hi @Kathryn01

    I am also in the same boat. Suddenly had to stop work, lost that social circle and struggling with everyone seeming to be going forward in life while i just sort of stopped! I am also in Manchester (well prestwich) if you find anything i would be up for joining or if you fancy going for a brew and a vent about these crappy situations give me a shout ?
  • Kathryn01
    Kathryn01 Community Member Posts: 7 Connected
    It's not much fun ill admit I live in Atherton ill keep looking for things to do must be something somewhere
  • Chloe_Alumni
    Chloe_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 10,506 Championing
    Hi @Kathryn01, how are you doing today? :)
  • SylviaMorrison72
    SylviaMorrison72 Community Member Posts: 17 Connected
    Hi @LittleGizmo86 I am in farnworth not too far from prestwitch (I'm originally from Whitefield my parents are still there!) I go to a m.h. group in Bolton! Do you drive at all? I would love to meet and chat I find this group helps me so much! My p.a. has started her own charity we usually meet on Wednesday afternoons just let me know if your interested! I hope your okay xxx 
  • Kathryn01
    Kathryn01 Community Member Posts: 7 Connected
    I'm on kuppose have to be can't seem to find any volunteer  work to do  
  • Chloe_Alumni
    Chloe_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 10,506 Championing
    What kind of volunteering were you after @Kathryn01? We have a thread on volunteering which can be found here :)