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Caring for my husband as a disabled person

I have alzhymers arthritis and fibtomialgea and quite a few allergys but my main concern is my wounderfull hubby of 35 years who has terminal lung disease he's sick at the min and may need to go back into hospital I'm worred sick and feel lost, we have 5 children and 11 grandchildren and I have a couple of friends that are supportive so I have a good group of people around me but at night when I'm sat up in bed watching my lovely hubby sleep as best he can that's when I feel at my lowest but I just get on with it I do now understand when people say you can feel loanly in a croud hope you are all as well as posable take very good care of yourselves x
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Thank you for sharing this with us- it certainly sounds as though you're dealing with a lot at the moment, and I'm so sorry to hear you're feeling low.
You mention you have some support from friends, but I wonder if you've contacted Carers UK before? They're a wonderful organisation who offer support and guidance to carers, and you can find their help and advice page here.
In the meantime, do get involved with the community and we'll advise where we can!
A very warm welcome.
Sorry to learn of your difficult situation and glad to hear you have supportive family around you.
Could I please suggest that you might wish to contact Macmillan Cancer Support helpline on 0808 808 0000. I am sure they may be able to support you, at this period. They are very much interested in supporting families in any way possible.
Please let us know if you need any further assistance.
Please keep in touch.