Today was my assessment
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laceypeach
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Hello everyone,
I recently wrote on here about how anxious I was about my upcoming f2f assessment and I asked for advice regarding a diary. Anyway, so today was the day. I had only slept for 4 hours last night and was unable to take any pain meds before assessment as I was driving there. Long story short is, I forgot the diary!! Was 10mins late and completely flustered and in pain. You go into a big room with seats and once checking into reception you wait. I was seen by a really nice lady, and to be honest it felt at points like an informal chat about my daily life. I think the point I am trying to make is that it was no way near as bad as I thought it would be. So anyone who is waiting for their assessment please please do not worry the staff and everyone whom I interacted with today was professional and accommodating.
I recently wrote on here about how anxious I was about my upcoming f2f assessment and I asked for advice regarding a diary. Anyway, so today was the day. I had only slept for 4 hours last night and was unable to take any pain meds before assessment as I was driving there. Long story short is, I forgot the diary!! Was 10mins late and completely flustered and in pain. You go into a big room with seats and once checking into reception you wait. I was seen by a really nice lady, and to be honest it felt at points like an informal chat about my daily life. I think the point I am trying to make is that it was no way near as bad as I thought it would be. So anyone who is waiting for their assessment please please do not worry the staff and everyone whom I interacted with today was professional and accommodating.
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Thanks for sharing your experience, many new claiments will be put at ease knowing what you have said, it's the acessment part that causes people stress and anxiety.
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laceypeach said:Hello everyone,
I recently wrote on here about how anxious I was about my upcoming f2f assessment and I asked for advice regarding a diary. Anyway, so today was the day. I had only slept for 4 hours last night and was unable to take any pain meds before assessment as I was driving there. Long story short is, I forgot the diary!! Was 10mins late and completely flustered and in pain. You go into a big room with seats and once checking into reception you wait. I was seen by a really nice lady, and to be honest it felt at points like an informal chat about my daily life. I think the point I am trying to make is that it was no way near as bad as I thought it would be. So anyone who is waiting for their assessment please please do not worry the staff and everyone whom I interacted with today was professional and accommodating.
Each question may appear to be 'a general chat' but unfortunately there are a lot of hidden factors as to why they ask the questions. Be extremely careful how you answer these questions. If you start of with ' yes of course I could do that but what you have to remember is that after a few minutes...…...'
Some assessors will hear the word yes and switch off to your explanation given afterwards. Everything is not what it seems.
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I understand that and am fully aware of how things can be taken differently. Even so I just think it is important for people to know that it really is not as bad as you may think. I left my f2f feeling hopeful and there really was nothing more I could of said or done. I now feel that if I do not get the right award that I have the strenghth to take it further if needs be.
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