Girls and Autism

My son and and husband are both autistic.  After going through diagnosis with them I had a strong connection thinking that I might also be autistic. After going through the diagnosis route, they have said I have some "flavours" but Im not autistic.  The tests I had to complete were weird, but I completed them but since then I realised I shouldve said how they were making me feel!  Ridiculous I know, I completed every task as asked because I was asked and felt this was what they needed to give me a diagnosis, now I dont know what to do.