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Frustration
Why are they such idiots that believe one thing and only that , At a young age I’ve been used by men for their sexual enjoyment and I wasn’t aware it was wrong at the time and I just went along with it , yet about 3/4 people all did simula things :-( , I couldn’t go to the police because it’s bringing it all up and it’s been a very hard journey trying to forget it all
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I am obviously very sorry to learn of this, and I cannot even begin to imagine what you have had to deal with... It is 'easy' for me to tell you this, but you must NEVER blame yourself for what has happened, and I would truly 'try' to seek professional help with this matter. Going to the police would not be the right thing to do, in my opinion, but please don't suffer in silence anymore.
Please 'think' about using this link:
https://www.thesurvivorstrust.org/national-helplines
Take care & Best Wishes
Rodders
Talking about things like this can be incredibly painful and ignoring it is a very common coping mechanism. Mind have offered the following information:
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- Our online support community Elefriends offers safety, support, friendship and peer support online.
- If you feel you need to talk to a GP about how you are feeling our information on seeking help can help you.
- Our network of local Minds may be able to provide support and advice to you in your local area. We know that some in the north west are putting on some specialist services over the coming days in response to this incident. You can get in touch with your local Mind here.
If there is anything we can do then please let us know.The Samaritans are always there for confidential, emotional support, whatever you’re going through. Call them on 116 123 or email [email protected]
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Support can be offered whenever we need it and if it was something you wanted to talk about then your GP should be able to make a referral to see a therapist.
You don't have to deal with this alone if you don't want to. I hope you are able to have a lovely weekend.
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She eventually sought help and was advised to write a letter to her abuser (now deceased), mentioning all her bottled up feelings and then she burned the letter.
She told me she felt a great sense of relief and her own mis-placed feelings of guilt vanished.
Might this be of help to you Game Girl?